Tuesday, 22 December 2020

UK lockdown 3.0: the mutant virus edition

Hello again guys. Many of you have read in the news what is happening here in London. So on Saturday afternoon on the 19th December, whilst everyone was out preparing for Christmas by getting their Christmas shopping, the government announced that a large part of England including the entire London region would be moved into tier 4 (we had previously only had a 3-tier system) and effectively, we had a lockdown announced with about eight hours' notice. This plunged the capital into chaos of course, because just a few days earlier in the week, Boris Johnson went on record saying that he wanted to avoid a third lockdown if possible but this is a massive U-turn by the government. This took many businesses by shock because they expected to do a lot of trade in the period between now and Christmas with people doing their Christmas shopping but now, in tier 4, all non-essential shops and services are forced to shut with so little notice, they will undoubtedly face financial ruin - imagine if you're a shop selling Christmas decorations! Many people in the region are left frustrated by this news of course, we have been through two lockdowns already this year but in both cases, we had a bit of warning so we could get things in order prior to the lockdown. But in this case, we were given 8 hours' notice - that's all. We then started receiving emails and text messages from various services that we had booked in the following days, apologizing that due to the lockdown these services would be canceled until further notice. 

If this makes our British government sound totally incompetent and inept, then yes allow me to tell you please that I think that Boris Johnson is a fucking moron who is woefully out of his depth. He is as bad as Trump. He wanted to be prime minister so bad that he lied to the British public about Brexit, ran on a campaign about getting Brexit done and now we're about to crash out of the EU without a deal as our hospitals are overwhelmed - given that we're still having about 500 to 600 Covid-19 deaths a day, the morgues are literally overflowing with corpses. I suppose there's an element of schadenfreude on my part given the twisted mind I have: a lot of poor people voted for Boris Johnson's brand of toxic politics because they really wanted Brexit to happen - this was the once in a lifetime opportunity to make a protest about how the rich elites in London get richer whilst the poor in the rest of the country are forgotten and neglected. Boris Johnson calculated correctly that this country is so unequal that if knew which side of the battle to pick, he is now the king of this castle but what a frightful state this castle is currently in, mostly due to his incompetence. Let's put this is in perspective: if a bomb went off in a busy central London location killing over 500 people, there would be such outrage, a day of mourning, candlelight vigils held in every town across the country for such a tragic lost of life. In 2017, a terrorist suicide bomber in Manchester killed 22 people but that figure is tiny compared to the number of Covid-related deaths everyday for much of this year. As a country, we have become totally immune to the horror of deaths - people are just brushing this off as a statistic, a number rather than thinking about what led to so many dead bodies piling up everyday and how we desperately need to hold this incompetent government to account for their shambolic mishandling this crisis.

Of course, the recent US elections has given me hope but I have to qualify that - Biden did win but one would have assumed that after the last four years of Trump, there was no way he would even have a fighting chance but he just keeps coming back. So at this point, it is no longer about Biden or Trump, but about the voters who vote for Trump and why they would gladly vote for a political party that is going to make them worse off. It would be simplistic to reduce it to these voters being dumb enough to believe whatever they are told - so Trump tells these people that Mexicans are a threat and they should vote for him because he will build a wall, none of that happened of course. Four years later there is still no wall but these people keep voting for Trump anyway? How is that even rational anymore? Oh we're definitely getting to the stage where we just want to see Boris Johnson fail time and time again just so we can have a new government when it is time for the next election here in 2024 - I know that seems an awfully long way in the future but it is in fact 3.5 years. Heck, if we have had a general election within the next few months, Boris Johnson could suffer a defeat the same way Trump did but one just wonders with Boris Johnson finding a new way to fuck up royally every few weeks, just what state would he leave the country in by the time we get to 2024? This reminds me of a guy called Greg at a party I attended when I was at university - he drank so much at the party, got so drunk, threw up one the carpet (have you ever tried to get vomit out of a carpet?) then decided to go home after that rather than try to help clean up the mess he created. At that point we were just glad Greg finally left - so he wouldn't throw up again somewhere else in the house!

This current lockdown is up for review on the 30th December, but so many factors will determine what will happen between now and then. The key reason why the third wave hit so hard was because of a very stupid decision by the government to keep the schools open during the second lockdown - so whilst we couldn't go to a restaurant, bar, gym or shopping mall, the children were still going to school. Allow me to analyze the rationale behind this: there is never one single reason why a complex decision like that is taken but a whole host of factors are considered before ultimately pushing the decision maker one way or another. One major argument was that parents would struggle to get back to work if their kids were off school, so making sure schools were opened was an essential step to kick start the economy (that had struggled since the virus hit us so hard). Secondly, another argument was that not all children can learn from home - many poor children live in crowded conditions where they cannot get hold of laptops, tablets or smart phones to join an online lesson. Richer parents can spend a lot of money to ensure that their children keep on learning from home whilst the children from poorer families simply get left out and lose out. So closing the schools will only make this inequality in our society a lot worse if the poorest kids are deprived of the chance to learn at school. The third argument for keeping schools open is that children don't fall seriously ill when they get infected by Covid-19, so the only people in the school who are vulnerable are the older teachers - particularly if they are obese or have underlying health conditions. 

I do have a counterargument for all three of these arguments: firstly, schools can stay open parents who are essential workers and that's what we had during the first lockdown; but since so many parents are unable to work during a lockdown situation, we have the uncanny situation where the parents don't have to get up in the morning and it is only the children who are waking up early, having breakfast, getting dressed to go to school whilst the parents are going to be spending their day at home watching TV since they can't work. If that's the case, then you may as well make the kids stay at home too. Secondly, let's acknowledge that most of what the kids learn in school is totally useless bullshit anyway - I have a respectable job in banking today but how much of the crap I learnt in secondary school is actually useful to me today? Only a tiny percentage, I would say that over 99% of what I have learnt is totally irrelevant quite because it has nothing to do with my current career - am I fucked because my syllabus didn't cover anything to do with corporate finance? Hell no, school isn't about memorizing tonnes of facts and figures, don't be silly, that's what Wikipedia is for. It is about learning how to learn, so you do a subject like economics at school, promptly forget 99% of everything you've learnt within months of having taken your last exam but the next time you're given a challenge to learn something new, you know exactly how to tackle that challenge. I have learnt how to teach myself everything I need to know to do my job properly. So I shrug my shoulders and say, "99% of the syllabus they missed is totally useless and irrelevant bullshit anyway so they can then spend that free time learning how to learn by pursuing interests that they are passionate about."

Even if the students don't get sick when they get infected with Covid-19, they are still spreading the disease and when these students go home, they infect their other family members with Covid-19. Rich families are less affected for two reasons: rich people tend to have a lot more living space in their homes, so parents can effectively socially distance from their children a lot more easily than poor people, who often lived in crowded conditions. Secondly, the "three generations in one house" situation is far more common with poor people for a simple reason: the adult children get married but can't afford to move out, so they end up living at home with their parents even when they go on to have their own children. The result of this is that these children from poor families get infected with the virus at school, they then go home and infect their vulnerable grandparents, then grandparents end up seriously ill and dying of Covid-19. The cynic in me thinks that the government wants poor, older people in the UK to die in their thousands because such people are a massive strain on the country: they are economically inactive and do not contribute to the economy, they are entitled to everything from the state pension to free healthcare to free/subsidized travel on public transport - yet given how poor these poor, older folks are, they probably didn't pay that much in taxes over their entire working lives. So such people pay very little into the system but benefit the most from it, if only there was a disease or virus that would target these poorer, working class older folks with surgical precision whilst not affecting the richer people. Oh wait, that is just what Covid-19 is doing. 

So as more poor people get sick and die of Covid-19, the economy gets healthier with each subsequent death and that's why I am cynical: this is an outcome that favours a right-wing Conservative government, so that's why they kept the schools open and for quite a few weeks now, they wanted these poor people to meet up for Christmas, spread Covid-19 to all their elderly relatives so we can kill off all these poor, older folks in one fell swoop, leaving the younger, economically active tax-paying adults around to help restart the economy. It is a cull that targets the poor with surgical precision. So the cynic in me thinks that is exactly what Boris Johnson is doing - it is a cull of the poor. Most formal education is a complete waste of time, these poorer kids have the rest of their lives to teach themselves whatever they need to make a living in the future but sending them to school at this moment means giving their grandparents a death sentence. Is the Conservative Party deliberately trying to kill off millions of poor people? Not deliberately, instead they are motivated by short-term goals to boost their popularity rather than make difficult decisions for the good of the people. Ironically, that's why China managed to get the Covid-19 situation under control better than most countries because they have no elections, the Chinese communist government doesn't have to worry about pissing off the voters when they order strict lockdowns - contrast that to the situation in the UK, where the government is far more interested in playing party politics than acting in the interest of public health. Countries like China are in a much better position to respond to a pandemic than the UK and so that is why people in Beijing can celebrate Christmas this year, whilst we can't in London. 

Furthermore, there is another dimension to this third wave - once again, it is the poorest people amongst us who are hit the hardest. The entire South East of England has been placed under lockdown but if you were to look at the local statistics, you will see a stark difference: in Camden where I live, we have an average of 353 new cases per 100,000 and just to the south of me, a short bike ride away in Westminster covering central London, that number is lower at 316. Mind you, even back in November, those figures were closer to 70. However, if you were to look at the poorer regions in East London and the Thames Estuary region, the figure in Thurrock is 1179, in Medway it is 1037 and in Epping Forest it is 1078 - the contrast is pretty stark! There are two reasons for this: the first is the one I have discussed already, poor people live in much more cramped, crowded conditions. The second one is that poorer people are less educated and are far less compliant when it comes to complying with rules like mask-wearing and social distancing. Most people would claim, "Alex you're just being snobbish and discriminating against poor people." But let's look at something like smoking which is clearly bad for health: there is a clear link between the level of education and smoking - the less educated you are, the far more likely you are to smoke. This is not just a simple matter of more highly educated people understanding the health risks of smoking, but there are other factors such as peer pressure as well as richer people having the money to seek other forms of pleasure to substitute the smoking habit. In the UK, it is quite easy to spot the working class from the way they dress and talk and whilst this is just anecdotal evidence from my observations, more often than not, it is the poorer, working class folks who put themselves most at risk by refusing to comply with rules regarding face masks and social distancing so is it any wonder why the rates of infections are over 3 times higher in these poorer areas of London? 

Let's now talk about this new mutation in the virus that has been making headline news: the viral load is higher so it is a lot more infectious. This mutation has been blamed for the spike in cases in recent weeks in the UK, but this new strain of the virus has been around since September. Over 40 countries like Netherlands, Belgium, Ireland, Germany, Canada, Turkey, Italy, France and many others (the list is growing fast - now including Singapore) have now banned flights from the UK because they are so afraid of this new strain of the virus - there is further worry about the disruption this can cause to our food supply as France has closed the border to vehicle traffic from the UK, threatening the entire supply chain. This is worrying as mutations are common with most viruses but now people around the world have clearly labeled this the London mutant and as a Londoner who loves to travel, this is terrible news. Things normally do shut down over the Christmas period anyway in the UK and so this has started early for us this year, but one does wonder to what degree normal life will return in January or would this lockdown be extended way into the new year? It is this uncertainty that is frustrating the hell out of everyone. I think we all got our hopes up prematurely twice this year - the first was during the summer when life returned to normal for a few months, we were able to go on foreign holidays, we could see our friends and do so many things we used to took for granted. Then we had the second lockdown and we thought, okay we have paid the price but now things can get back to normal because we finally have a vaccine that works. But now, the phrase 没完没了 ("seemingly endless") comes to mind - it feels like the light at the end of the tunnel is now simply the headlights of the oncoming train from the other direction and like so many people in the UK, I am utterly fed up with it all. 

I'd like to end with something I observed last night: on my way home from the supermarket, I noticed a Christmas tree outside my local pub with a note attached that said "free to a good home". Of course, so many non-essential shops and businesses have been forced to close on the evening of the 19th December and there have been many stories of restaurants, pubs and cafes facing financial ruin - yet even at such desperate times, many are donating everything from food to Christmas trees to those in our communities who are really struggling to make ends meet. I am trying to focus on the good news amidst all the doom and gloom. I did pause for a moment and contemplated taking the Christmas tree but I thought, no - let's leave it for a family with children who can't afford a tree, the children will appreciate this a lot more than me. Sure enough, when I passed the pub a few hours later, it was gone and I hope it is now making a local family's Christmas just a little bit better. I think we should be allowed to have the emotional wobble when dealing with bad news, let out our emotions rather than bottle them up, then we simply put on a brave face and try to make the best of a bad situation; what is the alternative, really? Getting angry doesn't solve anything especially in this current situation. Of course I have these angry thoughts, I allow myself a moment to be angry, I take a few deep breaths to try to clear my head then I would simply get on with the work I have to do. Please leave a comment below and many thanks for reading.

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  1. Boris Johnson sounds like a complete psychopath. Unlike Trump I actually think he's competent enough to win re-election since he was a politician for decades before becoming Prime Minister. Goodness me, 1000 new infections per 1 million is certainly gonna overwhelm the NHS soon in those areas(that's like New York or Milan in March). Not to mention that France is blocking accompanied freight from crossing the channel tunnel, which accounts for 20% of the freight coming into the UK. 20% doesn't sound a lot, but it may increase food prices during an already covid recession. Its nice that pub gave away its tree. From what I hear in the UK, Christmas is something the poor really treasure but struggle to afford. I read lots of phrases in news articles like "we won't have a Christmas this year because of tight finances." But with covid restrictions going on, that's taking one more thing away from people who already don't have a lot.

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    1. Well Amanda, I read somewhere on social media that he is unlikely to last even a full first term and that many are waiting in the wings to push him out when the time is right, they need someone to put all the blame on and he is perfect: he was PM during the Covid-19 crisis and Brexit, he will do a bad job and the party will use that as a perfect moment to push him out. It's a theory of course but the fact is there is no real loyalty in the Conservative Party, everyone is plotting against each other and a few names have even been thrown up as the possible replacements for Johnson but we shall see. Even if someone is going to stab him in the back, now is not the time - not yet anyway. Nobody wants to take over the poisoned chalice at this stage in the middle of an unprecedented shit show when 2020 finds a way to keep getting worse.

      But we'll see - it does sound like a plausible theory written by experts who understand how British politics work. Even Margaret Thatcher was eventually ousted when people within her own party started plotting as they saw an opportunity open. Theresa May also got stabbed in the back by her own party. And these are all prime ministers from the Conservative party - stabbing the PM in the back, plotting a coup to replace the current PM is really nothing new.

      And it is 1000 new infections per 100,000, making that 10,000 per million. I think in the states you use per million but in the UK we use per 100,000 - so that makes the situation far worse than you thought by x10. But thankfully they've reached a deal to let the goods flow again but the chances of me getting out of the UK for a holiday in the next few months has fallen to zilch. Sigh.

      I don't get the whole Christmas thing, usually I spend the day doing my tax returns but hey, I have done that during the second lockdown so I can just sleep a lot, watch a lot of Youtube and blog some more I suppose. As for poor British people and Christmas, I don't think it's just the poor - it's a big deal for British people because many of us leave our home towns to find work or for university etc, but it's that one time a year families gather and reunite. So it doesn't matter if you're poor or rich, it could be the one time a year you see your parents or siblings. That's why it is so important for the people here.

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    2. Yeah this is what I dont get about british politics, can one just call an election whenever? In the US the presidential election is separate from the Senate and House of Representatives election. But it seems in the UK its not. And yeah I've seen how Thatcher was ousted by a coup in the early 90s. She wasnt even a lucky PM because she inherited an economy in freefall which she managed to stabilize. Who are the contenders for the head of the conservative party? I just hope they arent pro Brexit populists.

      I'm surprized you do your taxes on christmas since you're married to a British man, so I'd assume you would celebrate Xmas with his family. Oh okay, so Christmas is like the Chinese New Year of the West, like how Sg takes CNY so seriously. Even I never took CNY that seriously, I thought "if I want to see my relatives, I'll just go see them or write to them instead of waiting for one particular day of the year." Its probably just capitalism hyping holidays up haha. But I do love Halloween, me and my friends watched scary movies on netflix and played horror videogames during the lockdown. Its my favorite holiday because there are no instructions or obligations (like seeing family) aside from having fun.

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    3. Yes a prime minister can call an election when it suits him/her best but there is a time limit - so in the case of Gordon Brown for example in 2010: he took over in 2007 after Tony Blair stepped down, then he dithered. He could have called an election right there and then with a clean slate to get a new mandate from the people but he didn't dare to do so. Imagine if he lost - then he would go down in history as the guy who was prime minister for a few weeks. So he held on till he ran out of time in 2010 when he simply had to call a new election, then he promptly lost that election. Bad move, he wasn't a good PM anyway. As for contenders, the few names circulating include Raab, Sunak, Patel and Gove. Ireland has had their first gay-Asian prime minister, America is going to have their first black-Asian veep, so the UK can finally follow suit by having an Indian prime minister. We have gotten to the stage where things are so bad that even the most racist of Brits will back someone like Sunak (practical, level headed, good with the economy businessman) or Patel (an Asian Thatcher, she will crack the whip and her men will be shaking in their boots) to take over and whip things back into shape.

      His family live very far away. I have been a few times before in the past but they could tell that I don't really enjoy it since I don't get the Christmas thing anyway. I do show up once every few years but it's not like his family has this rule where EVERYONE without exception must show up. Heck, his brother shows up even less than me and I show up once in a while. Both my husbands niece & nephew have joined the army, so they often get deployed overseas during Christmas, so Christmas is not a family thing anymore especially after my mother-in-law passed away - she was the only very traditional one who wanted to see her family at Christmas and I'm like well if her own son (ie. my husband's brother) can't be asked to show up, then I'm certainly not obliged to show up either. I also feel this certain generation gap with his family - his late mother is kind but on a totally different wavelength. His sister's husband is just plain weird, good grief, I have ZERO in common with him and making polite conversation is painful. Good grief, just painful I swear. I actually get along a lot better with his brother's girlfriend as she's closer to my age and she has better social skills. And as for his brother again, nothing in common at all. I actually find it a lot easier to get along with my husband's niece & nephew and their partners, since they are all younger and I just find it easier to connect with them. His niece in particular is super intelligent, went to Oxford to read medicine and now she is an army doctor. I have taken a long walk with her (walking the dogs in the hills is what one does in Scotland) and we talked about politics - I enjoyed talking to her, she has brilliant social skills, she has great insight and I connected with her in a way I could never connect with her dad. It's not like he is not educated, he is educated but has much poorer social skills and just comes across as weird. Oh and weird dad's younger brother is unemployed and is occupying the spare room in their big house, he's equally weird. So given that they're not that fussed about gathering at Christmas - we're just like, hey we'll meet up in London instead when you guys are passing through.

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    4. Eeeek, typo spotted: "both my husband'S niece & nephew" - I only have one husband, that apostrophe 'S is very important otherwise it sounds like I have 2 husbands.

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    5. Yeah I think its time Britain did elect a nonwhite PM since they have so many nonwhite politicians in cabinet positions anyway. Dunno what platform a contender would use to rally votes though. Its not like they can take back Brexit so easily. The only thing on anyone's minds is probably just the economic recovery after Corona. Since Rishi Sunak is already handling the economy, he's probably in the best position to do that as PM.

      Ah yeah, I forget your Husband's family is Irish. Lol 2 husbands, bigamy isn't legal in the UK. Yeah just because you have family or in-law family doesn't mean everyone will get along. I have a huge extended family from my mom's side that lives in California but I only get along with 1 or 2 of them out of 10 of them. That niece sounds very badass, and she joined the military? I mean, she could've made way more in the private sector working at high end clinics/hospitals. I wonder what her relationship is with her weird dad since it sounds a bit similar to you and your dad.

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    6. Well let's see, I think it is interesting to see what will happen after January 20th when Joe Biden is inaugurated and Trump is out of power - that's a similar kind of situation here, but BoJo is our version of Trump. Many Republicans are keeping silent about Trump's erratic behaviour and bizarre, outlandish, ridiculous claims of voter fraud because they are worried that Trump is still popular amongst ordinary voters and they may fall out of favour with their support base if they speak out against Trump. But that's just a tactical silence, it doesn't mean that they are actually that loyal to Trump. The exact same thing is happening here in the UK - there are many on the right who are ready to pounce on BoJo and are lining up with their sharp daggers to stab him in the back (and they will do that with glee and pure joy). But timing is everything: BoJo has made a mess of Brexit and Covid-19, he inherited the poisoned chalice at the worst possible time and so whilst he is left to continue as PM whilst things are still getting worse by the day (oh and we now have the South African mutant virus strain present in the UK as well - can 2020 get any worse? Yes it can!), the moment things stabilize sometime in 2021, there will be people getting ready to oust BoJo, the vultures will be circling in due course when the time is right. BoJo doesn't have the appeal of Trump even to those on the right - instead they like Nigel Farage who is the face of the Brexit Party, so BoJo is under a lot more pressure to sort this mess out if he wants to keep his job. His position is a lot more precarious.

      Let's not pretend that everyone in one's family will get along even if they do get together for Christmas, I remember my sister in law and mother in law having a shouting match on Christmas day - it got ugly. I had to leave the house to go for a long walk as I couldn't cope with that kind of tension in the house, especially since they were in the middle of the countryside, so it's not like I can go to the cinema or the mall - there's nothing to do there. As for my husband's niece, as a doctor, she had the choice of either first working in the NHS or the army but as you can imagine, working in a government hospital (NHS) means extremely long hours and with the current Covid-19 pandemic, it is a highly stressful job. Working in the army as an army doctor actually offers better conditions! Fewer patients (since you're only treating soldiers and not the general public), shorter working hours, higher pay, better working conditions - they may send you anywhere in the world and you don't get to pick and choose that part, but otherwise, it was a rational decision on her part to pick the better deal.

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    7. As for her relationship with her weird dad, I think she knows him a lot better than I do, so for me, it's me trying to deal with someone in my extended family who is kinda weird and has poor social skills - but for her, it is her dad, she knows exactly how he thinks, what he is like and how to push his buttons. Frankly, I am not close enough to them to know if there are any serious issues in their relationship but on the surface, I can't detect any major problems.

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    8. Sounds like as soon as most of the UK is vaccinated, it'll be the ides of March for BoJo haha (torrent of knives). I think it would come down to whether there is a no-deal Brexit. If there is one, and it is as bad as people fear, BoJo is definitely out, and maybe even the conservative party as well.

      Oh wow, that's really public disagreement. Every family's got their disagreements I suppose, but most people hide it. Oh so your husband's niece is still doing her residency training, so she has to work for the government in some capacity as a trainee. Yeah I totally get that being an army doctor would pay more since most people would prefer to work as a civilian doctor since it allows them to settle down long term. Its the same reason why other jobs in the military pay more too. Pretty good deal since she's still young and its easier to move around, especially during Covid haha. Btw when I talk to some of my UK friends they say a starting NHS doctor only makes 42k pounds a year. That may sound like a lot relative to a lot of jobs, but it doesn't sound like much compared to a doctor in Sg or the US. And their explanation for it is "well, its universal healthcare unlike America."

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    9. Well BoJo did campaign on the claim that he had an 'over-ready deal' and that he will get Brexit done because he is the man with a plan - he promised a good deal, now if he fails to deliver and crashes out, then he would have failed to deliver then like you said, once we're vaccinated, the people in his party will be lining up with their knives, waiting to stab him not just in the back but probably in the face as well as it will be open season.

      Oh the NHS doctors work super long hours in horrific conditions during Covid-19, so it's just as well my husband's niece is not working for an NHS hospital. She only treats military personnel as an army doctor - she's also super sporty and strong, so the thought of going to a war zone doesn't faze her. She's the kind of person who would wake up at the crack of dawn, then take her dog running with her for an hour in the countryside - erm, I can't do that. I'm too freaking lazy. Maybe if I was 30 years younger I might do that but not at my age. I work far fewer hours than NHS doctors and earn more than them, it doesn't seem fair but there you go.

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    10. @Amanda a new Dr in SG earns more than 42k SGD but if you convert the currency over then they would earn less than 42k GBP.

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    11. Oh you can't compare like that @Choaniki - you have to see what the money can buy you. Let me give you an example, I have an Indonesian client who once accidentally revealed how much he earned - he had a colleague and he revealed how much that colleague earned, then he added a comment that "that's about twice what I make" and then immediately in my head, I was able to do the mental sums and work out how much he made a year and let's just say we both earned about the same amount when you converted it into USD. But I live in London, he lives in Java. I have a very ordinary life - I go to the supermarket, I cycle around London and use public transport, I cook my own meals, I have a cleaner who comes in once a week to do some of the heavy duty cleaning, you get the idea. I'm comfortable but not crazy rich - my Indonesian client lives in a mansion with a high fence, he has his own chauffeur, a cook, a live in nanny/tutor for his children, several servants in his house and he doesn't set foot in the supermarket - one of the servants will go and make sure the kitchen is well-stocked. Heck, he doesn't even make his own coffee in the morning, one of the servants will make a cup of coffee for him.

      So that's him supporting a whole family and living like a king whilst earning about the same amount as I do but he lives in East Java whilst I'm in London - big difference of course, that's why his money goes a lot further. So it's not the absolute number on the paycheck for the doctors in Singapore, it's more a question of how many hours a week they have to work for that money and what that money can buy them in Singapore - the kind of lifestyle that salary will allow them to enjoy.

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  2. "One death is a tragedy, a million deaths a statistic" - Joseph Stalin

    Yes Trump and Bojo might be worse than Stalin! But this is what happens if you have the Turkeys voting for Christmas. Once Brexit fully comes into force UK would be isolated. If it already isn't currently. The French PM (or someone else) said that UK just blockaded itself better than Napolean did, and he is absolutely correct!

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    1. Well, this is the cull of the poor & the stupid. Just yesterday (Tuesday 22nd Dec) for example, we have had 691 deaths in a 24 hour period. These are mostly older, poorer people - the very kind who voted for Brexit and are now dying. As discussed in the blog post, it is a controlled cull of the poor and the old. They're no longer contributing to the economy, they're not working or paying income tax anymore, so the government may as well let them die to reduce the strain they place on public services, hence I am calling this a controlled cull.

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    2. I'm not sure about stupid, yes some are poor due to circumstances. Just look at Africa, I'm sure from the entire continent you will be able to find a 100M people more intelligent than the average Trump or Boho (or PAP) voter but they are all so poor. Do they deserve to die?

      Which bring me back to this quote by Stephen J Gould: "I am, somehow, less interested in the weight and convolutions of Einstein’s brain than in the near certainty that people of equal talent have lived and died in cotton fields and sweatshops."

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    3. I don't think it is fair to compare the situation in the UK to that of Africa - in Africa, even if you're smart, if you're born into a poor family, you have very little access to further education because of your poverty and you thus have poor but smart people who never got the chance. Whereas in the UK, if you're genuinely intelligent, then there are all kinds of programmes and schemes to make sure you fulfill your potential by granting you access to training, further education, internships and this is all courtesy of the tax payer. So of course, this kind of programme has its limitations of course - it cannot 'cure' stupidity, if a person is stupid, then there's no cure for it. But we can make sure that unlike in places like Africa, then we can at least make sure a very bright kid from a poor family who has earned himself a place in Oxford can complete that degree without worrying about the money. The welfare state is actually pretty generous when it comes to helping kids in that kind of situation - so if we put that provision in place and the individuals are still uneducated and poor, then they only have themselves to blame (for having been so unlucky with the genetic lottery).

      Thus by that token, the poor in the UK are a lot luckier than those in Africa, given that there is a government that has the resources to help them - but this resource is prioritized for the most talented and intelligent ones amongst the poor, not everyone gets the same amount of help.

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    4. So you are saying that the poor people in UK are stupid by choice? I know in Singapore since school fees are pretty expensive and if you did not get a scholarship (which research has shown go overwhelmingly to people with high SES backgrounds) you are on your own.

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    5. No, I never said that - please be careful with your words. I did point out that it is a genetic lottery, whether you're born clever or stupid is really the luck of the draw. If you're born stupid (ie. genuinely low IQ), then you're reliant on your family and if your family is unable to support you, then you're going to face a life of poverty. There is no 'choice' in the matter - life is really that cruel. If you're born extremely clever but find yourself in a poor family, then the government will enable you to get an education for free on the state then you can go onto get better paid employment and enjoy social mobility.

      But so much of all this is down to the genetic lottery. I was lucky with my genetic lottery - my parents are not intelligent yet I was got lucky with lottery, I am not stupid like them. The government's resources are limited - they will gladly give a scholarship to the smart kid from a poor family who has earned himself a place at Oxford but as for the mediocre kid from a poor family who wishes to get some further training to improve his job prospects, the state has far more resources for people like that because they're just mediocre, average at best. The term 'the deserving poor' comes to mind - you can't help all poor people, so you help the ones that most deserve the help by virtue of their talents.

      So let me be clear here: there's absolutely NO element of choice. Poor people are stupid because they were very unlucky to be born with lower IQ, rendering them too stupid to do well in the education system and unable to access well paid work. That's why they are poor and continue to be poor - there's no element of choice involved, just a lot of really bad luck.

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    6. I'd say Asia can be more classist than the UK or US, but they just hide it better. But to me its more of a lack of labor protections in Asia that allows classism to go on (the mindset of "they're poor and not like us (rich people), so they don't deserve good pay or working hours"), than outright discrimination in a non working environment. Classism in the West leans more towards discrimination in social settings than work settings, because of labor protections.

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    7. What about if you are smart and still poor? I'm sure not all intelligent people in UK are swimming in money, and the reverse is probably true.

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    8. @Choaniki - oh I have already blogged about this topic and it is one of the blog posts that is one of my personal favourites (hence constantly linked in a lot of my posts) here it is: http://limpehft.blogspot.com/2018/08/why-do-some-brilliant-students-suck-at.html?view=sidebar I discussed the situation in Singapore and kept it quite specific to a Singaporean context - essentially you have straight A students who fail to make the transition to the working world successfully, they have a brilliant academic track record but lack the skills to find a good job to earn a lot of money. But since you're asking about the UK, yes there are people who are smart and still poor for much the same reasons: just because you're good at passing exams doesn't mean that you're automatically going to find well-paid employment. So we have a few scenarios which I will run through with you:

      A) Low IQ + Rich parents = you'll inherit a lot of money so it doesn't matter if you're stupid, you'll still have plenty of money and live well.

      B) High IQ + Rich parents = You'll probably go on to be as rich if not richer than your parents given that you have everything you need to succeed.

      C) Low IQ + Poor parents = All the odds are stacked against you in life, chances are you will probably go on to be as poor if not poorer than your parents in this case.

      D) High IQ + Poor parents = there's nothing for certain in this category (unlike the three categories above where we are more certain about the outcome) - these people in category D certainly have a much better chance in life to succeed compared to those in category C: but whether or not they actually become rich depends on many other factors. At least those in category D won the genetic lottery in the brains department, but that's no guarantee that they will become rich and successful - nothing in life is for certain of course.

      So in those 4 categories, I would say that those in categories A and B are definitely going to be rich whilst many but not all in category D will become rich as well. Some in category D will stay poor whilst the vast majority in category C will definitely be poor. Like I said, if you are born into a poor family and you wanna escape poverty, it certainly helps to win the genetic lottery when it comes to what kind of brain you have. This is completely random of course - I have a good friend with two children: his daughter is super intelligent, speaks 5 language (French native, English fluent, Spanish fluent, Mandarin + Cantonese very high standard) whilst his son is borderline disabled low IQ. Oh dear. Talk about the genetic lottery, but so the daughter is in category B and the son is in category A.

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    9. I'd say category D starts out with a resource and reputation penalty compared to category A. This is where EQ and streetsmarts come into play. If you're a very smart person but dont look out for yourself, someone can easily exploit you and profit from your high productivity but not promote you and pay you more. The category A people may not be able to look out for themselves, but their parents will (hence the term "trust fund", which pays children their inheritance under certain conditions to keep them from spending it all at once). Or if you're in category A or B employers are less willing to exploit you because it benefits them more to make friends with rather than piss off your rich parents. I see this in elite university admissions in the US a lot, they will admit category B if they can, but accept category A over category D if it means they can establish connections with a rich famous parent. Being in category D is not nearly as bad as being in category C, but it will require a lot of insider knowledge to catch up to category A let alone category B. School hardly teaches that life isnt fair, or even the art of negotiation where you find out what people want to get what you want from them.

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    10. Btw Alex you've described the cases of rich and poor parents, but what do you make of the middle class? I think middle class high IQ is actually on decent footing with category A, and not that far behind category B. Middle class low IQ is likely to slide into poverty but still not that likely, they will probably still get a college degree and a low level white collar job.

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    11. Well you've pointed out a very important piece of the puzzle - the role of the parents. And you know, we can split hairs over the analysis and insert new categories like middle class + low IQ vs middle class + high IQ etc, but I think at the end of the day, so much depends on the individual acquiring the right social skills to thrive in the working world - like you said, EQ and streetsmarts come into play. So I think there's a certain level of cynicism on Choaniki's part, but I think there's a certain allegation that the odds are stacked against those born into poorer families and don't have the same privileges in life to compete with those in rich families - I completely agree with that of course. But all I am saying is that if we just focus on those from equally poor families, then having won the genetic lottery in getting a better brain (in terms of simply having more intelligence) certainly helps and that part of the equation is totally random.

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    12. The other categories can struggle all they want but can never come close to Cat A. The best indicator of personal wealth is having rich parents.

      You can be dumb as a doornail (Prince Harry, Josh W Bush) and still enter top universities or become president. The world is not fair but that is how it is.

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    13. Aaah if your point is that life is unfair - then I agree, it is completely and utterly unfair! The world is extremely unfair of course. But my point that I reiterated above is that I'm only comparing people in category C (low IQ + poor parents) and category D (high IQ + poor parents) and so I'm NOT comparing categories A/B with categories C/D - I am only making a distinction between those in C and D so clearly, having the luck to win the genetic lottery to get a good brain is obviously going to be very helpful of course, but it still doesn't guarantee that you will become rich, but my point is simple: if you're in category C+D then you need every advantage you can get.

      And if you're in categories A+B, then yes life is INCREDIBLY UNFAIR. But now that I've acknowledged that point, let's shift focus back to those in categories C+D. Oh and I think you meant George W Bush, the former president of the US.

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    14. I think abit of self-awareness is necessary in order to differentiate categories C&D. There is the Dunning-Kruger effect where low IQ people don't think of themselves as stupid. Or as ex-Defense Secretary Donald Rumsfeld terms the unknown unknowns.

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    15. I think any amount of self-awareness in category isn't going to help much if they are starting from a position of having lost the genetic lottery in the brains department.

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    16. Sorry typo: "in category C" - that's important.

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    17. You can't change what you don't know. But that is assuming that the people in category C want to change. They are just like the Trump voters who rage about the Mexicans and illegal immigrants who "terk er jerbs". Without realizing that even highly educated pmets are losing jobs due to automation and globalisation.

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    18. Choaniki it's not exactly true a Cat A can be whatever they want because chances are a Cat B is competing with them for the same job. Even in a very rich private school where everyone is wealthy there is still a heirarchy based on IQ, just like there is one in a poorly funded state school. The Cat As can only stay wealthy if they either have Cat B parents or Cat B friends. But if they have neither, chances are the wealth is gonna run out pretty soon. Whether they spend it all too fast, or get cheated out of their money. Of course, a Cat A can easily push out a Cat D for a lower paying job than what a Cat B would go for, which is the unfair part. But no its not true a Cat A can easily be president without at least some help from Cat Bs. In Trump's case the Cat Bs are the rest of the republican party, who may have also grown up as rich as him, but were actually successful in the business and political realms for decades before he came along. An example of a Cat B who is Trump's ally is Texas Senator Ted Cruz. Both his parents were mathematicians, and he attended Harvard and Princeton. But Trump's biggest ally would be Senate majority leader Mitch McConnell. He may be a staunch capitalist who has a personal net worth of 22 million dollars, but he grew up middle class and didn't attend any ivy leagues.

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    19. Interestingly enough Amanda, I know of a story about this guy in Singapore - he was my friend in the army and let's call him Eng (not his real name), he was from a rich family and lived in a beautiful house. However, his father went into a bad business deal, invested a lot of his personal wealth into a business in China that caused him to lose almost all of his money. I heard that Eng and his family had to sell the big house to make repay their debts and they now live in a small HDB flat, his father was so devastated by the loss of his business that he had a stroke and now is barely functioning - he just sits on the sofa all day staring into space wondering what could have been if he had invested in a different business, whilst his mother is the long suffering wife who now has to take care of a disabled husband. Eng has a decent job but he is having to support both his parents who are completely dependent on him financially now, so the money just doesn't go far enough - not for any kind of comfort or luxury that Eng grew up with. So the moral of the story is just because your parents are wealthy, don't take for granted that the wealth is a bottomless pit of money - in Eng's case, things went so badly wrong for his father's business that they went from rich to poor in a generation.

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    20. Oh god I've heard of many stories like that, and even had people at my school go through similar situations. Nobody would feel sorry for someone who grew up wealthy who is suddenly poor, but it can be a shock to someone who is a Cat A instead of a Cat B. A Cat B would simply shrug and say "oh well, its just money, I can make it back later", but a Cat A will come to the sudden realization they were only ever wealthy through a huge stroke of luck instead of their own talents, and will likely never be wealthy again. But yeah, unless your wealth is taxpayer money like the royal family, everyone else could easily lose their money through big bets on bad investments.

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    21. Btw, what baffles me sometimes is when an average but very rich student ends up going to a very low ranked university, even when they are still very wealthy. I was browsing LinkedIn one day to see what my old classmates were up to, and was shocked at some of their university choices. Some of these universities are basically on par with SIM for reputation, yet these wealthy parents and kids don't seem to mind. I get that for a wealthy child it doesn't matter too much since their wealthy parent can use their connections to secure them a good first job, but still it sounds like a waste of money to pay somewhere like SIM, considering it is more expensive than public university options. But then again, I'm culturally Asian, and in Asian culture education is viewed as a status symbol even if its not that practical in some cases. A rich Asian parent would rather hire private tutors to bring the grades up of their mediocre child to at least get into NUS/NTU than shrug and send their child to SIM.

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    22. Hi Amanda, firstly, Eng's situation is hardly unique and I do know of other people who have met similar misfortunes but for myself, I have that same attitude - ie. even if I encounter hard times (oh hello, 2020) I have that quiet confidence that in the future, at some point, I will be able to make more money at some point in the future because I have the skills to do so. Contrast that to Eng's father after his stroke where he just gave up on life.

      I have an answer for your second point: I once worked under this director who was from a very rich family - he went to do a useless degree at Brighton University. Now allow me to explain, we have league tables in the UK, out of 130 universities, it is currently ranked 112nd, up 2 places from last year! So literally, anything beyond the top 50% is bad and anything that can't even place top 100 out of 130 is but a degree mill. This guy was so rich that he felt no need to study, he was a spoilt brat who just wanted to have fun and he saw his parents dripping with wealth, so he has no incentive to work hard to score those As because he knew he was inheriting a pile of money in the millions. Anyway, after he graduated, daddy who was super well connected made a few phone calls, the next thing you knew, he managed to get a good job in an investment bank because someone owed daddy a favour and he is still working in banking today. So yes Amanda, only a rich Asian parent would spend that wealth making sure their children have everything they need to go to Harvard - rich white parents on the other hand, may just think, "our darling is going to inherit our billions, why bother studying? That's more money than he can spend in his lifetime. He may as well have some fun."

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    23. Seems like Eng's father wasn't confident he could make back the money. Too bad. But maybe he should've at least focused on working a middle class job to support himself and his wife after the bad investment instead of burdening their son. Btw Alex, the Brexit deal just passed. Are you gonna write an article about that soon? Anyway I hope 2020 hasn't been too hard on your business.

      Hmm I did not think about the "let them have fun" aspect since my parents never let us have any fun in that way, despite how much money we had. Asians not only don't want their kids to squander their inheritance, but also make it a point of pride to brag about educational achievements. But this classmate on LinkedIn, he's Italian, and even in high school he didn't have the best grades, but his parents never made a huge fuss about it. Afterwards he went to LA for university, where he still hasn't finished a bachelors degree after 7 years. In my Asian family, you either finish in 4 years or pay your own college tuition. No gap years or failing a year allowed. But in this Italian guy's case, his parents are content to just let their son just enjoy his early to mid-20s in LA, just like they let him enjoy high school.

      Come to think of it, I have a horrible work-life balance as a result of my upbringing. Its very hard to relax, even when I have to relax or else my work will suffer. To be fair though, Italian kid has more people skills than me, since I was pushed into learning booksmarts instead. If I have kids I'd try to balance the hobbies and the schooling, because too much schooling means zero streetsmarts, and also being an unhappy workaholic.

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    24. Hi Amanda, I am currently finishing off part 5 of the story of my father and that's what I am going to focus on - this was such a big story that I had to just put everything else aside and rush this out. But obviously, the Brexit deal is a big story and I will probably wait a day or two to gauge what the response is to it before blogging about it.

      As for Eng's father, he was in his late 50s or early 60s when his business fell apart spectacularly. So to be fair to him, he's done - it's game over. If he tried to apply for a "middle class job" at the age of say 59, he would be competing with applicants a lot younger than him and he would be facing a lot of ageism. It is really scary for adults that age because the older you get, the more successful you're expected to be and once you're in your 50s, the bar is raised pretty darn high as you're supposed to have made enough money for your retirement soon. So in all honestly, to be fair to Eng Senior, he had very, very little chance of getting his hands on an even half decent job at that age and would have probably had to resort to something like driving a taxi to earn money - that's how cruel life can be to older adults. I think you're wrong in assuming that he could have gotten a job easily when really, it was virtually impossible. Besides, imagine if he did turn up for a job interview - I'm the interviewer and I say, "Mr Eng, I see you've spent the last 25 years running your own business but it all stopped quite recently, can you tell me why?" It would be a sorry tale to tell - I would probably feel very sorry for him but at the same time, seriously question his judgment for having made such a disastrous decision.

      No Amanda, Eng Senior was seriously up the shit creek without a paddle - that's why his body just gave up on him when he had a stroke and you're a scientist, you must know how serious a stroke is and how people are not the same again after a stroke. That's why his health is so poor today - the stroke was awful.

      I have met super rich Chinese kids whose parents decided to 'let them have fun' doing degrees in the UK, they may improve their English in the process but the aim was never really to become the smartest kid in the university - no, rich people have a totally different attitude towards education. Perhaps there was a time in America where Asians were discriminated against as America was a far more racist place 50 years ago, so they clung on to their academic achievements as something that was so vital to their self-worth, like that's the one thing you can't take away from me even in a racist society. Margaret Cho my favourite Asian-American comedian talked a lot about this. However the key thing these days is money - your good grades aren't worth anything unless there's some way you can use those good grades to help you make money. So short of sounding a bit crass, money talks. Good grades are there to help you make money, rather than the ultimate goal per se.

      I have made up for my horrible work-life balance from my younger days, I have been so lazy in my 40s whilst earning so much more money in my 30s and 20s. I need my beauty sleep.

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    25. Oh yeah, forgot this series isn't over yet, and Brexit will need time to unpack. Regardless, Boris Johnson might just stay in office since he did get Brexit "done."

      Oh man gambling away your retirement fund at that age on a big investment. Definitely not a good idea to risk it. Life lesson learned...

      I wasn't exactly referring to grades when it came to a university education. In the sciences/engineering the main goal in undergrad is to get on a cutting-edge research project with a professor, where you have the possibility of filing patents or just being ahead of the curve with regards to technology trends. But I come from a science/engineering family, for a more business oriented family this kind of experience is not as useful, and there is less rush (innovation happens too fast).

      Actually, I'm surprised how grade-obsessed Americans can be too(even white people!). They are just as prone to making the mistake that grades = guaranteed success as Asians are, though I notice its mostly working and middle class kids who make this assumption. But yeah you're right, grades are only there to assist in landing a high paying job or convincing collaborators you are capable, but not the be all and end all.

      Well I'm not at the point where I'm making tonnes of money yet using my skills. But I'm trying to stay sane while working towards that. Funny thing is I told myself I'm gonna step back and make more time for hobbies and friends, then I realized that costs money so I better work hard to make more of it, but try to be more efficient with my ratio of money made to time spent. It is different though, thinking about making money and being efficient with it, instead of just learning stuff for the sake of learning like we were taught all throughout the education system.

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  3. OK OK OK it's easy to say that Boris is culling the poor and then laugh at the poor older people who voted for the Tories only to be culled at Christmas, a classic turkeys voting for Christmas situation. But then again, how do you account for the fact that infection rates are on average x3 to x4 in the poorer parts of East London compared to the richer parts of North, West and Central London? Anf as for killing off 40 year olds on benefits with 3 kids - now that's Grenfell.

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  4. I was thinking that it is too big of a risk to throw the economy into recession just to kill off some seniors on benefits, but then I realized the rich people in the economy are doing just fine, or even better. I don't think any of us know a person who was rich before the pandemic who is now poor. There have been some layoffs of high paying jobs, or young highly educated people entering the workforce who have had their job offers rescinded, but it isn't much relative to the layoffs occurring in the low-skilled low-wage service industries. Btw, what's ironic is that my university recently announced a 100 million dollar fund to hire better professors, while at the same time asking their kitchen and cleaning staff to take a paycut or wage freeze during the covid recession. The rich sure aren't suffering right now.

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  5. So many points to cover but let's go to @Amanda first:

    1. That's one possible explanation but it can't be that all of the people in West London are bankers and lawyers working from home whilst the people in East London are working in public transport and supermarkets because if you look at the provision of public transport and supermarkets in East vs West London, you'll see that there are probably as many people employed in each of these sectors - there aren't more jobs for these people in the service industries, unless you're going to argue that West London supermarket staff in Kensington commute in a very long way from Barking or Romford because they can't afford to live in Kensington. There just aren't enough service jobs in poorer parts of London to sustain all those poor people by that token.

    2. I have saved a lot this year as well - accumulating a big nest egg towards yet another property when the time is right. Otherwise the next time I can go on holiday (no time soon I'm afraid), I will push the boat out and stay in some totally fabulous places and enjoy the best 5-star luxury.

    3. I am amazed at how lowly paid the care home staff are and how much they are on the frontline when it comes to the fight against Covid-19 - then again, you can go to a 5-star luxury hotel and pay a lot for the service, but the staff there are still paid very little. Of course, the next level up is to employ a full time nurse/maid to take care of your elderly folks at home rather than to put them in a care home - that's actually fairly common in Singapore with the large number of domestic helpers from places like Indonesia and the Philippines.

    4. @Amanda, yes the richer are not hurting as much as the poor in this pandemic.

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  6. Can I just rant? I just came back from some last minute Christmas Eve shopping at my local supermarket and sure enough, the people not wearing masks are the chavs with their painfully working class accents and I was thinking, "I hope you chavs all get Covid and die this Christmas!" I know it's anecdotal evidence but every time I see someone without a mask, it's always some working class chav who doesn't care about how they're spreading the virus to other people. Well educated people simply don't behave like that - it's always the poor, working class who behave like that.

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  7. Hi Sandra and thanks so much for your comments. Yes, you're right and you're probably following what people are saying on Mumsnet whilst I'm less exposed to these bizarre conspiracy theories - I just run into idiots with no masks on in the supermarket and on the tube. But to be fair, Covid-19 is still relatively new to us - let's look at smoking instead. If you were to look at the studies that look at the correlation between education levels and smoking habits, it is very clear that the less educated you are, the more you're likely to smoke and the more educated you are, the less likely you are to smoke. But it's not a simple matter of having the information about lung cancer and the effects of smoking - even poorly educated people know that. It's far more about the mindset of poor people who smoke - for them, smoking is probably the one thing that gives them a bit of joy, their only luxury so they are reluctant to give that up whilst rich people have so many luxuries that bring them joy in their lives. So if we apply that to poor people and masks, going maskless is I suppose more convenient and comfortable (it's so much easier to breath without a mask on), so that little bit of convenience and comfort means so much more to them if they have so little in their lives to bring them convenience and comfort. Another theory I have is that the richer you are, the more you think long-term, you want to send your yet-unborn children to university, you want to build your business and have a 20 year plan, you want to buy your dream house that will cost several million pounds - in order to fulfill those plans you need to stay healthy and not die of Covid-19. But poor working class people with dead end jobs have no long term plans, imagine if you're working as the cashier in Poundland, what kind of future would you have? It's bleak to say the least. They think far more short term, about how to get very drunk and party this weekend rather than buying their dream home because all these big plans require money, money they will never have. So when you're always thinking short term, guess what? They react the same way when it comes to masks.

    Anyway, that's just my theory on why working class people don't obey the rules on masks.

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  8. At the risk of even more anecdotal evidence Sandra, I was once on a train from Manchester to London when this man and his wife were talking loudly in the quiet carriage and I politely pointed out to them that they were in the quiet carriage and if they wanted to talk, they should move to another carriage. The man just said I don't fucking care, I paid for this seat etc - very working class accent. This kind of thing would not happen with more middle class people because if you misbehave in public like that, someone who film you and shame you for that kind of behaviour. We've seen (mostly in America) people who misbehave in public being forced to resign from their jobs, even over something like a racist tweet. https://www.nhpr.org/post/anti-semitic-post-brings-calls-laconia-state-rep-resign That's just one but there are so many. Maybe it's just me in my bubble - you see, it's not like I have no been exposed to working class people: I grew up in a very working class family, I spent 2 year 4 months having to live and work with very working class people during NS and once I got out I decided, enough is enough, I'll be damned if I am going to spend my life around working class people and from that point on (I was 21 years and 1 month old when I completed NS), I had the choice about whom to include in my social circle and let's just say I've been a lot more choosy and discerning. OK rant over, happy holidays.

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  9. Dear sir

    life around working class people
    You just hit my heart again
    It took me till age 30, for me to move apart from toxin peoples in my life

    Merry Christmas to my psychology doctor
    Thank you for the past writing and keep up the good work next year

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