Friday 12 August 2016

Sister Bin vs the anti-Horton brigade: 江山易改,本性难移?

Hello again guys. I hope you're enjoying the Rio Olympics. Oh what are we to make of China today? You see, I'm 40 - I grew up in a time when China was shrouded in mystery back in the 1980s and people knew very little about how real Chinese people in China thought. Even though I am (mostly - technically speaking, I'm mixed Eurasian) ethnic Chinese, I am still very much treated like a foreigner, an outsider whenever I deal with those from China even if I am fluent in Mandarin. Now the two social media stories from China that have made headlines are that of the Chinese woman who recorded a rant on the beach in Thailand aka 'Sister Bin'  and then there's the ugly side of Chinese mob anger when they decided to all attack Australian swimmer Mack Horton. So that's one good news story from China (well, a quirky one that gives hope in the midst of a bad situation) and one that just makes me bury my face in my hands in utter despair. What are we to make of these stories then? Well, allow me to offer my personal response.
Now before I get started, allow me to state my credentials. Given how many hours I trained as a gymnast as a child, I was practically brought up in the gym by Chinese coaches from China - that's why my Mandarin is totally fluent but I can't read/write Chinese very well. That's mostly because I had plenty of opportunity to speak Mandarin with native speakers of Mandarin from China since I was a kid, but didn't spend much time studying, memorizing those thousands of characters. So from a young age, I was very much exposed to a kind of very Chinese environment that was remarkably different from what other Singaporeans experienced. Since moving to the UK, I have done various jobs where I cashed in on the fact that I speak Mandarin fluently - that has resulted in me working on numerous occasions with PRC expats. Sometimes I get along really well with them and become great friends, sometimes I find it hard to understand their mentality and there was one occasion in Beyoğlu, Istanbul where I argued with this stupid bitch from Shenyang for nearly an hour (until another PRC colleague stepped in and calmed things down). That happened just once, but yeah it suffices to say that I have had a mixed experience working with people from China. Ironically, I have had far more contact with PRCs than someone like my dad who doesn't speak English - his only contact with PRCs were my gymnastics coaches back in the day. You'll be amazed how many Singaporeans actually don't have that much contact (if any) with PRCs, so with that in mind, allow me to comment on these two stories.

Sister Bin gives us a valuable insight into the Chinese mindset of today, something many non-Chinese people struggle to understand. Many around the world have had plenty to complain about the behaviour of Chinese nationals and Sister Bin's epic rant does answer an important question: do Chinese people merely accept the bad behaviour of their fellow citizens or are they just as disgusted as us? Clearly, Sister Bin's disapproval and anger gives us a very clear answer on that issue. I don't know about you, but I found it quite reassuring and that's probably why her video has been so popular and widely shared on social media by her fellow Chinese citizens. But her rant was not so much an apology to the Thais but rather directed at her fellow Chinese citizens, I doubt she would have expected her video to have gone viral quite the way it has. I do wonder if she would have censored herself if (in hindsight) she knew that would have happened and the video would have been viewed by thousands of non-Chinese people on social media? I wonder what sister Bin would have said if she realized she was actually addressing a much wider, global audience?
Sister Bin gives us an interesting insight into modern China.

Chinese people are extremely paranoid about the outside world looking down on them - that's perhaps a hangover from the period in the 1970s and 1980s, when China was a lot poorer than the rest of the Western world and when contact was first re-established under Deng Xiaoping's time, that was the first impression that the Chinese got when they saw rich Western, Japanese and Korean tourists coming into China. It has always been a massive chip on their shoulder ever since and that aspect of the Chinese mentality hasn't changed much in the last three decades. This chip on their shoulder does condition the way they react to anyone non-Chinese (such as Australian swimmer Mack Horton) who makes any criticism of China (or any Chinese person or any aspect of China today). Mack Horton does have a point - doping and the use of banned substances is a major problem at the 2016 Olympics and actually Russia is the country that has been most guilty of cheating but certainly others like China have not been completely innocent either. And look, it's not a question of opinion - if Chinese swimmer Sun Yang has failed a drug test, then you can't argue with that result the way we can dispute whether the latest Star Wars movie has lived up to all the hype and high expectations by the Star Wars fans. However, this is hardly a simple story of Sun Yang cheating.

Am I sympathetic towards Sun Yang? Actually, I am - but allow me to elucidate please before you assume that I am taking this stance because I am Chinese. Sun tested positive for the prohibited stimulant Trimetazidine in mid-2014. That test was conducted at the Chinese swimming championships - so in fact he was caught by his own Chinese authorities (and not some external, non-Chinese body); Sun was consequently suspended for three months by China's swimming federation. So even if Sun did cheat and take a banned substance, he was caught by his own people and punished for it - so it is not as if it was some kind of state-sponsored doping programme (as in the case of Russia), but wait, yet another Chinese swimmer has just failed another routine drugs test in Rio, so the picture is hardly clear. Sun Yang claimed that the substance he took was merely medicine prescribed to him by the team doctor - Sun is a swimmer, not a pharmacist or a doctor, so he couldn't have known what he was taking was a banned substance. So in this case, whilst he admitted to have broken the rules, it did seem that he didn't intentionally cheat. The team doctor Dr Ba Zhen was subsequently suspended. So is Sun Yang merely a victim of Dr Ba's costly mistake - or is he merely a pawn in a more elaborate conspiracy within the Chinese system? So do you blame China's system or the swimmer?
All I can say is that I don't know - I wouldn't rush to judgement because I would like to refer you to another case from the 2000 Sydney Olympics, that of Romanian gymnast Andreea Raducan. Raducan won two golds and a silver medal at Sydney but then subsequently failed a drugs test. It was then discovered that the banned substance pseudoephedrine was in the cold medicine prescribed to Raducan by the team doctor. Raducan was promptly stripped of her medals and when the case when to appeal, even though she was exonerated of any wrongdoing and it was clear that the banned substances she tested positively for could not have contributed to her winning performance. Neither Raducan or the Romanian Olympic committee were subject to any disciplinary measures but Raducan's medal was not reinstated. Certainly, the wider gymnastics community feels that this was a grave miscarriage of justice - punish the team doctor by all means for prescribing the wrong medicine to Raducan, but why strip her of her medal? Raducan is clearly a victim in this case - now I am not making any comparison to the Sun Yang case here, all I am saying is that these competitors are part of a wider sports programme with coaches, team doctors, physicians and a whole load of other experts helping them train. If someone is guilty, it is rarely ever a rogue individual - but other the result of a series of decisions (whether deliberate or not) which leads to a failed drugs test. 

As for the tirade of abuse hurled at Mack Horton and Australia by the Chinese, well, you see, even though I look Chinese, I have a Chinese surname, I speak Mandarin fluently and have worked with many Chinese nationals over the years, I am still being very much treated as an outsider because I had never lived in China. Allow me to share a story to illustrate this point: years ago, when I was working with a group of China nationals, I took an afternoon nap after a heavy lunch and you know that moment, when you start to wake from your nap - you're still kinda drowsy and sleepy, you know you are awake enough to be aware of what is going on around you but you've yet to open your eyes or move because you kinda wanna sleep a bit more? Whilst I was in that state, I had overheard my Chinese colleagues openly criticizing the Chinese government over their stance on Tibet. I must have listened to them for a few minutes before I finally opened my eyes and sat up. The moment they noticed I was awake, they promptly changed the topic as if on cue. I was an outsider who must not hear their complaints about the Chinese government, lest they gave an outsider a bad impression of China. It was amazing how they had this silent agreement about what to do in this case.
My colleagues were embarrassed that I heard what they said.

I did try to join in the conversation (in Mandarin, of course) as I was quite intrigued by this willingness by my colleagues to openly criticize the Chinese government. However, any attempts to engage them in a conversation about Tibet was immediately rejected by my colleagues. They either told me that they were talking about something else altogether, that I was sleepy and must have misheard them or simply tried to change the topic. One even defended the Chinese government, saying that people like me (the outsider) didn't understand the situation within China and thus should not rush to judgement about China's internal affairs. There was a mix of defensiveness and embarrassment when they realized that I wasn't asleep and had overheard a lot of their conversation - they acted as if they were naughty boys who had been caught doing something very wrong. They almost had this since of duty to protect the good image of China and that overrode any possible desire to include me in a conversation about Tibet. In hindsight, I should have just kept my eyes shut and continued to eavesdrop on their rather interesting conversation!

What did this episode demonstrate? Well, it shows that even if the average Chinese netizen is aware of some degree of doping that goes on within the Chinese sports system, they will be more than happy to turn a blind eye to it as the priority would be to defend the good name of China when under attacked by an outsider. I'd love to be the fly on the wall (or in my case, the sleepy colleague having a siesta) amongst a group of Chinese athletes who are comfortably talking amongst themselves about the issue of doping in Chinese sports and perhaps then and only then, would we actually get an accurate reflection of what is going on. But what is clear is that social media is making a huge impact on the way we are now able to gain an insight into modern China - twenty or even just ten years ago, Sister Bin's epic rant would have never gone viral, but given the way stories are shared on social media, even my French friends are talking about that story on Facebook now. How will this impact on the way Chinese people talk about their society and country to others outside China, to outsiders like me? I don't know, it may take a while for us to truly see the impact and even if change is on the way, I'm not sure if this will be a quick change brought about my technology or if the Chinese psyche is more along the lines of 江山易改,本性难移 ("it is easier to change the rivers and the mountains than to change one's character") ? Well we shall see: modern China is undoubtedly changing fast, but just how fast?
江山易改,本性难移 ?

That's it from me on this topic. What do you think of Sister Bin? Do you think that Sun Yang is innocent or is the entire Chinese swimming team complicit in a doping scandal? What about the Chinese netizens who are blindly lashing out at the Australians without first verifying the details of what happened? Can this Chinese chip on the shoulder ever be healed in our lifetimes? Let me know what you think, do leave a comment below please. Many thanks for reading.谢谢!

21 comments:

  1. I watched this video 2 days ago and enjoyed her rant so much i shared it with several people and have rewatched it several time. Here is sister Bin's facebook in case you want to follow her latest ongoings: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100010639628160&hc_location=ufi

    Since my wife is from China i have lots of insight into how the Chinese think of their government. It is of no surprise that most of them find their Premier and most government officials corrupt and untrustworthy. My wife even finds the healthcare system and almost all government institutions untrustworthy which is a big culture shock being from Singapore. In Singapore, most locals blindly trust government officials and healthcare professionals but not so in China.

    From my limited encounters with the Chinese bureaucracy i can understand why. Speak to 3 different people and you will get 3 different answers but there really is no way of knowing what is true. I'd like to think of truth in China being of 50 shades instead of black and white. What is true depends on the context and who you are dealing with at that time. That way there is no point splitting hairs over the details. Which is why PRCs are more "flexible" compared to Singaporeans.

    Over to sports new i don't really follow all the negative news about doping and name-calling (which there are lots like that pig incident). Instead i find news about Fu Yuanhui and her reaction to winning Bronze quite interesting. She even did a livestream which you can watch here if you have the time: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGX3wctUrs4

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    1. Yes, I am indeed very intrigued by Sister Bin's video. You've worked with and have encountered PRCs a lot more than me Choaniki - do they speak to you about their problems in China, or are you shunned the way I was, as an outsider?

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    2. While I was working at the MNC, the locals never treated me like an insider. But compared to the Japanese expats there I was privy to more inside information. They never openly complained about their government, however complaints about bread & butter issues like cost of living and even the bad behaviour of their countrymen overseas were common.

      However over at the in-laws and even amongst my wife's friends the critical comments about China and the government were common. I guess I don't get the outsider treatment since I speak putonghua and am married to a local.

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    3. I guess you're probably gonna be consider an 'insider' after marrying a Chinese national - having a Chinese surname and speaking Mandarin was never gonna be enough for them to consider me 'one of them'. I used to get really irritated when any of them spoke to me in English instead of Mandarin, because that kinda feels like a snub.

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  2. I love Sister Bin! She is the type of Chinese I would welcome into my country. Her respect for local laws is refreshing. I say, make her Minister of Chinese Behavior or something.
    I wouldn't put it pass the entire Chinese team being complicit in the entire doping fiasco. I think very little of the ethics and morality of the Chinese. They are survivors. They will do anything to survive and thrive.
    Your example about the Tibet incident --- in 1999 when I was working in China, the locals told me that Tibet had always belonged to China. China had done only good things for Tibet, but Tibetan were ungrateful. I showed a few people the movie, Seven Years in Tibet. Of course they said it was all based on lies. In our lifetime, I doubt we will ever see a change in Chinese attitude. I think it has been ingrained and will take eons to "get it". Look at Singapore --- still so kiasu. The Russians are still so alpha. The Indians are still so steeped in traditions. These ingrained cultural consciousness do not change, if ever.

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    1. I shall ask you the same question as I asked Choaniki please Di, do they speak to you about their problems in China, or are you shunned the way I was, as an outsider?

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    2. In 1999, the people whom I taught and worked with ALL said this in different ways, "You are not from here, you don't understand. China is changing (for the better)." Beyond that, no one would speak to me about Tibet, the Cultural Revolution, Tianamen Square, human rights (or the lack thereof!). I think it is a matter saving face. It's ok for them to bitch amongst themselves, but they will not talk freely with outsiders. However, they were quick to bad mouth the Americans. At the same time, many were waiting for visas to study in Australia, Canada, and, yes, the US! I told off some people, "You bad mouth the Americans, yet most, if not all of you will leave your beloved country if you could work and live in the States." Needless to say, when my contract was up, it was mutually agreed that it was time for me to go home. I despise those people with passion. Mind you, that was 1999.

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    3. That is very similar to what I have experienced indeed.

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  3. I have a close friend who is a PRC. A smart PhD graduate who is well informed about communist China. I thought I can have an open discussion about Chairman Mao but to my surprise, he suddenly became very defensive. He was almost never so. I suppose certain topics are too sensitive for outsiders to comment .

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    1. But come to think of it, many Singaporeans will feel offended if foreigners say bad things about LKY

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    2. Well, I think it depends if the foreigner is making a valid argument or has misjudged LKY. The person making the point about LKY should be judged on what he said not his nationality. Imagine if you had an opinion about the American election and some American told you to shut up - not because what you said was wrong but because of your nationality - how would you feel? Hmmm?

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    3. Agreed with you LIFT, it is the blind idolatry of Mao that I think is unhealthy. I dun blame my friend, he had been brainwashed by CCP ever since he was very young. Even when presented with facts, he could not accept.

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    4. I totally agree with you that we should based on facts and not my nationality. To address the issue with PRC, IMHO, they wanted to show the world that they are no longer inferior. Look at how much China wanted to impress the world during Beijing 2008 Olympics and how serious they are to want to win Gold medals during the games. Winning Silver or bronze is a "disgrace" to China. I do not know how soon the chip on their shoulder would be removed but i believe that it would be sooner than later. The Chinese students in Singapore are some of the most hardworking I had seen and they are hungry for success. The Chinese were superpower for most of the World History and they would most likely be one. The question is whether China would overtake United States as superpower and whether it would be a peaceful one. Sorry I digress but I feel that when PRC are more confident of themselves and no longer need to "prove" or "defend" themselves that they would not be so defensive of critics from others.

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    5. And that Jonathan, will probably take a generation or two. Things will change, but that change will take some time.

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  4. Hi Alex,

    while I've never visited China, I have noticed this attitude on Quora - which hosts a thriving Chinese community.

    To be fair, many Chinese netizens are not diehard, no-matter-what patriots... and I recognize Western coverage of their homeland is somewhat mixed.

    On the other hand, "you and your media misunderstand our Country" cannot cover every and any criticism of China.

    Also, I think some of them don't realise that one can criticise a few Chinese customs, policies, etc. while at the same time respecting Chinese people and their efforts.

    The Italian mentality is completely different - ranting against our Country, government and fellow citizens is a sort of national sport, here :P

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    1. Italians never had that chip on the shoulder about their national identity I suppose - China has gone through a very turbulent time from the period when it had to grant trading concessions to various foreign countries during the Qing dynasty. It did turn China into a quasi-colony for so many European powers + Japan, add to that a massive invasion during WW2 by Japan (a much smaller country in comparison) and then emerging in the 1980s as one of the world's poorest country after so many troubles, well you can't underestimate the kind of inferiority complex they have as a result. Italy has had her ups and downs throughout history (Mussolini comes to mind) but I think it's also a cultural thing. Personally, I loved the way Berlusconi was never ever a PC kinda president. Bunga-bunga anyone? Gotta love you Italianos :)

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    2. You're probably right, Alex - while Italy has had her fair share of humiliations, we have always somewhat "admired" our conquerors (they were fellow Europeans, after all!).

      By the way, Mr Berlusconi has become more PC of late - he has embraced gay rights, animal rights... and he's currently in a committed relationship with a lady - no more Bunga Bunga, as far as we know :P

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  5. LIFT, i just read about how much Joesph Schooling's family had to fork out their own money for his training. ( "In 2008, when the Singapore Swimming Association shut down its Centre of Excellence (COE), Colin was convinced by ex-COE coach Jack Simon that the US was where Joseph's Olympic dream lay. The Schoolings, who had to bear his school fees, expenses, transport and accommodation costs, took a leap of faith in 2009 and sent their only child abroad. Colin, a 66-year-old businessman, estimates spending nearly US$1 million (S$1.26 million) on Joseph." )
    I read of other athletes that had to pay for their own training and other expenses such as Saiyidah Aisyah, our national rower.

    How much do you think our nation should help our athletes in terms of financial support in the quest for glory?

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    1. I will try to write something on Schooling soon. I've just had so much on my plate at the moment.

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  6. I look forward to your article on him. From what I read, if not for Schooling parents willing and able to spend on his training, it's likely Singapore be still waiting for her first Olympics gold medal.

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