Hello from Dumfries & Galloway, a very rural part of Scotland |
1. Dogs need space - a luxury Singaporeans don't have
In Singapore, about 80% of Singaporeans live in HDB flats and most of them are unsuitable for bigger dogs. Cats perhaps, but dogs are not suitable for small flats like that. Currently, the HDB allows only one dog of an approved small breed to be kept in HDB flats. Is this any surprise? The population of Scotland is 5.3 million whilst that of Singapore is 5.5 million already - there are more people in Singapore than Scotland, despite Scotland being vastly bigger. This means much cheaper property prices in Scotland - people have big houses and you can easily get a house with a large garden for under £50,000 in rural areas. If you could push the boat out to £350,000 (the price for a nice flat in Punggol), you could get a property with a few acres of land. Never mind having a few large dogs, you can even keep a horse or two with that much land. By that token, less than 20% of Singaporeans who do not live in HDB flats are allowed large dogs (mind you, many who live in private condos are not allowed either), so having a large dog is well and truly a luxury in Singapore whilst it is fairly common in Scotland. Well, to be fair, if you want a nice property in Glasgow or Edinburgh, then it would get quite expensive in the city centre - but what many Scottish people do is simply live outside the city centre (in a fairly big house, of course) and spend a bit more time commuting to work in the city. Well I'm afraid you Singaporeans really don't have that luxury.
2. If you wanna go to these beautiful countryside places, well you need a car
Oh practically everyone in Scotland has a car - the moment you get old enough to get a license at 17, you take driving lessons, so even teenagers have cars and why not? Public transport is limited in rural areas and cars are so ridiculously cheap, you can get a second hand car for a few hundred pounds and petrol is pretty cheap. So people will think nothing about jumping in the car and driving say 20 or 30 km to somewhere picturesque just to walk their dogs. Cars in Singapore are notoriously expensive to own (I obtained the figure of S$176,774 from this website) and most Singaporeans choose instead to use public transport - that means trying to take your dogs on the MRT or bus to a nice park in another part of Singapore is going to be rather difficult to say the least, given how crowded it can get.
It is recommended that you walk your dog at least once a day, most people in Scotland will walk their dogs a few times a day with one walk being quite long, whilst the others being relatively short ones. This is a time consuming exercise that dog owners need to do on a daily basis without fail - us humans can get lazy and decide, oh I don't feel so well, I feel really tired, I won't go to the gym today but the dogs need exercise and the walks are good for their well being. Well Singaporeans work much longer hours than Scottish people - that means that Singaporeans would probably not have the time to walk their dogs and would favour other pets like cat or fish which are less time consuming. When you spend that much time at work, you need whatever time left to attend to your more basic needs: like eating or sleeping.
4. And even if you did have the time...
The weather in Singapore this year has been absolutely dreadful. Would you want to be walking around Bishan Park with your dog when the PSI is in the unhealthy range? You would certainly not, even if you didn't care about your health, you should think about the health of your dog when the air quality is that bad because of the haze. In Scotland, there population density is so low that there is plenty of pristine countryside, a long way from any industry or major cities - the air I breathed on these long walks with the dogs have been absolutely, delightfully fresh and clean. Now that is one thing no amount of money can buy you in Singapore - and don't get me started on the uncomfortably hot temperatures in Singapore. Within a few minutes of walking your dog, you are pining the nearest air-con environment.
I would say that the one thing that bothers me about Scotland is the food - gosh, it is bland and boring. Ever wonder why there are hardly any Scottish-theme restaurants around the world? Quite simple: the food here sucks. I was able to get some quality sushi when I was up in Glasgow recently, but otherwise good grief, I am currently in a small town in Scotland and there is one Indian and Chinese restaurant here. And you may think - oh okay, there is Asian food here, but no - it is expensive and not good at all because they have no competition at all and they sell far less than a restaurant in say Glasgow city centre, hence they need to charge more. So yeah, food in Singapore is far cheaper and tastier - but once you've satisfied your stomachs, other aspects of life in Singapore pale in comparison to Scotland.
I do believe that giving up chicken rice, mee siam, fried hokkien mee, char kway teow, yong tauhoo, rojak, ice kachang and laksa is a small price to pay for a better quality of life, especially if you have children. I do think that Scottish education is a double edged sword though, given the size of the country, children often simply go to the nearest school (which can be 50 km or more away). In fact, children can commute over 100 km a day just to go to school and back in rural areas and it may or may not be a particularly good school, but that's just the nearest school to where you live. So okay, in Singapore, we often complain about the immense amount of pressure we put on our students, but at least you have a very wide range of schools to choose from within Singapore. In rural Scotland, there is virtually no choice, short of sending your children to boarding school (which can be expensive).
Hi LIFT! Love the scenery. I would like to address the dog- ownership aspect of your article.
ReplyDeleteI grew up with a boxer and a rottweiler, both were adopted from the SPCA and one of them ran away or disappeared never to be seen again.
Based on my experience, when walking your dog in Singapore, strangers you encounter on the streets will go out of their way to avoid you, as if they think your dog is going to leap up and attack to maul them to pieces. They also give me really dirty looks!
What about Scotland, is their reaction so extreme if you meet people when you are out walking the dogs? Thanks and Happy New Year :)
Hello fellow dog lover, how are you? Yeah I remember growing up in Singapore being quite afraid of dogs - it simply isn't in our culture to embrace dogs like that. i used to fear being chased or bitten by dogs as a child. Heck, even as I skyped my parents on xmas day, I gave Troy (the bigger of the 2 dogs in the video a cuddle) and my dad warned me not to do so just in case Tory would bite me and I'm like, Troy and I are old friends. And like my dad just didn't get it because his view of Troy is just 'it's a dog' - Yeah, angmohs have a very different POV when it comes to dogs being a part of the family.
DeleteWe do meet people walking their dogs (when the weather is good - which was the case in 2 out of the 3 videos), usually we stop and talk, ask questions like, how old is your dog? What breed is it? Do you come here to walk your dog often? Simple small talk, the dogs would play with each other... And if say we were to meet people without dogs (joggers, walkers etc), then they do the same thing, they make small talk with us about the dogs and yeah, it seems weird that you cannot make small talk with a stranger you meet in the park (now that is just a bit strange no?) but it is perfectly okay to chat to someone about their dog(s). Go figure.
Happy new year to you too.
I wouldn rather live in a 700 sq ft flat in the middle of a bustling city than living in a 700 sq m house in the middle of nowhere. So boring living in such ulu place. Ships most likely close at 5pm and all day on Sunday. Nothing to do and shop.
ReplyDeleteWell, to be fair, I do live in central London and my flat is not big at all (i am about to move to a bigger one in Feb 2016) but yeah, I choose to live in the middle of a big city because of work - there are far more employment opportunities in a big city than in rural areas. My sister in law is a headteacher in a school here and she talked about a member of staff who is vastly overqualified for the job she does in the school, but because of the very limited job opportunities in that particular area, that was the best job she could get. It was that or move to a bigger city where there would be far more opportunities.
DeleteSo you see, life is not one long holiday - most of us need to work, you know, earn a living, pay the bills. And to be fair, my sister-in-law wanted to live in Scotland, but it was her work that determined that she landed in this part of Scotland as there was a vacancy in that particular school and she was able to get a well paid role as headteacher here.
However, I would refute the point about 'shops are most likely to close at 5 pm, nothing to do' - we did drive up to Silverburn shopping mall which is the largest shopping mall in Scotland (just outside Glasgow) and yeah, I was able to explore the mall from end to end (post xmas sales) and get some quality sushi whilst I was there. So it is not like we are so remote it takes 2 days to drive to the nearest shopping centre (now there are places in Canada and America which can be that remote - but not Scotland), but Silverburn was just about 2 hours drive away. And as for nothing to do - we walk the dogs, we do sports outdoors, i remember a year when the pond two minutes walk away froze over and we were skating (more like sliding) on it - if you watch my videos, you can see how amazingly beautiful the hills of the countryside are.
It's not worse than Singapore - it is just different. And I tell you one more point - you can walk down Orchard Road every day of your life, but how many pairs of shoes, bags, watches, jeans and belts can you buy? How many do you need? How much can you afford really? Instead of walking through a mall, some of us prefer walking through the hills in Scotland.
Well, this is a no brainer. All things equal in terms of being able to make a living, of course I would pick Scotland. What is the point of all that money and living the wretched life Singaporeans lead? It's quality vs. quantity. I would give up the laksa for the rolling hills.
ReplyDeleteHi Di - what would you say to the very Singaporean response above about 'the shops close at 5 pm and on Sundays, so boring, so ulu, nothing to do?' Clearly, this Singaporean has not watched my videos (ie. the 3 of me walking the dogs) but what do you do in Canada then Di, when not exploring the malls of downtown Vancouver?
DeleteThat was a vey Singaporean response indeed. Where to even begin with such a narrow view of the beautiful world out there?
DeleteFirst off, I live in a suburb of Vancouver which is a city in and of itself. Whilst it is hardly a metropolis of exciting high-end boutiques and mega-malls, it is sufficient for many people like us. I actually do not shop downtown Vancouver. Last time I did was probably 8 or more years ago. We now go downtown Vancouver for special occasions like trying out a restaurant, meeting people, or when my son has a tennis tournament. We will take the opportunity to eat at our favorite restaurants or perhaps catch a foreign movie. Otherwise, we try to avoid the place. Too expensive. Too crowded. Parking is expensive.
I hardly shop these days. When I am running errands at my local mall, I may visit The Gap to see if there are deals for my son. He loves clothes, and he outgrows them quickly. I have to replace them often. I mostly shop online these days. Abercrombie Kids often has great sales. I like that I can mull over my shopping cart for a few days if I want to before I submit my purchase. I almost never pay full price unless it's something he needs urgently. For myself, Costco serves most of my work and home needs. It is only 5 minutes from my home.
So, what do I do when not working, driving my son around, running errands, doing laundry, cleaning, and watching Netflix? I try to hike. I try to get my hubby and son out of the house and into the forests especially in the summer time. There are so many parks and trails around our home, more than I have time to explore regularly. My son and husband walk our dog daily at the field across our home. We don't live in an upscale neighbourhood, but it is safe and still lovely enough to walk around. In the summer, my son goes out to play with the neighbourhood kids and sometimes does not come home for hours on end. He brings his scooter with him. Sometimes, I bike with him around the blocks. During the school year, we are often busy with work and activities. Weekends are spent cleaning and catching up on housework. I try to read and spend me-time watching my programs. My husband likes his me-time too. My son is forbidden to spend more than 30 minutes on the weekends on his video-games. I have noticed that during this break, he was only on his video-games ONCE! Yay! Sadly, he is not a voracious reader, but he has other ways to occupy himself. He is now into playing different music pieces on his saxophone (last year, he was crazy about knitting, and the year before that was bracelet-making). He also has to study for his exams coming up in January.
So, if the malls were closed on Sundays and 5 pm on other days, we'd be ok. In fact, before we moved to British Columbia, we lived in Manitoba, and at that time, Sunday shopping was non-existent except for grocery store. We survived. Don't get me wrong, I love looking at beautiful things. I just do not need to buy them.
To say that that is "nothing to do and shop" because the stores are closed on Sundays and at 5 pm is say that other than work, there is nothing in life to do but shop. Gosh! There is a whole world of beauty out there to explore. Interesting things to do. Try a new sport? A new hobby? Volunteer? Learn to cook gourmet meals? Make jam? Garden? Write a book?
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DeleteThe town you stayed at may have been rural, but it was not like the North Pole. You can still drive to the major cities if you need the hustle and bustle once in a while.
My dog is beloved by all of us. We love him to bits, and I can watch him all day. He is my baby. Imagine having rolling hills for him to roam around. Actually, he is not very smart and may just run off, but I will have a huge fenced in garden for him to explore.
My husband was just saying a few days ago that he couldn't wait to retire because there were so many volunteer projects to be part of. He wants to go to rural towns and help out in any way. I look forward to that. We have a long way before retirement, though.
I hope your reader above will realise that there is beauty in just doing NOTHING! I love my naps! If I could nap every afternoon, I'd be very happy. Naps before shopping.
Hi Di, there's a huge difference between rural Scotland and say, rural Yukon and by that token, a huge token between your country Canada and my country, the UK. Canada is so much bigger than the UK and our concepts of rural are vastly difference - I don't think Singaporeans actually appreciate that difference the way we can. I suppose it is possible to go live in a town in northern Yukon that is a two hour or three flight from the nearest mall. So yeah there's rural and there's really rural and everything in between.
DeleteHello LIFT, I'm a Malaysian, hence my nick 大馬阿成, currently working in Singapore. I have my fair share of kampong life growing up and love every aspect of it. And yes, in between a country life and the concrete jungle of Singapore, it is really a no brainer. I just got my Aussie PR a few months back and the response above is just the response I got from typical Singaporean when I told them about my decision to make Australia my future home. To me it's unfathomable that, given a choice, one would choose shopping in one of those soulless mall on Orchard road over exploring the creeks, hills and woods in the countryside. Deep down inside you could say I'm a kampong boy.
ReplyDeleteHi Ah Cheng, I didn't make the immediate connection between da ma and Malaysia, mind you my dad's from a small town in Malaysia too. I am a city boy myself, having lived in Singapore as a child, then in Paris and London for most of my adult life. I have not actually lived properly in the countryside before simply because my work has always kept me in big cities. But yes, it can be very pleasant to live out in the countryside and even if you do want to visit a mall, it is not that far away.
DeleteI have one example to illustrate the pointless nature of repeated visits to the malls on Orchard Road - well, there is one shop in Scotts Road which I liked on a trip in 2011 to Singapore and I did buy one item of clothing there. Thus on Subsequent visits back to Singapore in 2013 and 2015, I remembered, "that's the nice shop where I bought something back in 2011" - but I went back there each time and never ever bought anything again and the one piece of clothing I bought in 2011 is still available there, go figure.
I like my shopping - don't get me wrong - but I am not obsessed with having to visit a mall and buy something all the time and I don't understand people who go out in the sales and spend a lot of money.
Yes, 大馬 is the preferred short name for 馬來西亞, definitely not 馬國 please.
ReplyDeleteThe debate of city vs country living is one that is very close to my heart. The
decision to migrate is partly influenced by my desire to live in the countryside.
I have given up on explaining my decision. Every time I do that, I am given the dirty look and the exact comment above. I guess one man's meat is another man's poison.
I am not a big fan of shopping, given that all malls look and feel the same to me, with the same shops like Breadtalk, SK Jewellery and Uniqlo. Seen one and you have seen them all. Oddly enough, I enjoy checking out supermarkets in other countries. Going to a local supermarket is always on the itinerary when I visit other countries.
Hi Big Horse Ah Seng,
ReplyDeleteLike you, I'd give up living in SGP in a heartbeat to live in the countryside to be near the great outdoors and all that space.Not to mentioned the air quality is indeed much better.
Mind you, i grew up in this gilded cage called Singapore. My observations of the locals here is, they are too comfortable in their cage to want to rattle it or get out of it, too used to their comfort zones to even branch out and explore the infinite possibilities of improving the quality of their lives. Or they simply aren't intelligent enough to realize they are living in a cage.
As Alejandro Jodorowsky puts it :Birds born in a cage think flying is an illness.
The same can be said of Singaporeans as a whole.
I am lucky to have a wife from Malaysia who grew up in a kumpung.After 5years going back and forth there for the festive seasons and holidays, I can say for sure the open spaces and countryside have an immensely positive effect on one's mental well-being.
Much like yourself,when i go traveling to other countries, i like visiting their supermarket or local wet market. And here I thought I am the weird one...
Anyways, I am happy you got yourself an Aussie PR and living in the countryside. Singapore is not a place where one should waste away their life.
Wow! A fellow Jodorowsky fan, fancy meeting one here! I've backed his latest film, Endless Poetry and look forward to watching it next year.
DeleteNot only do you work shorter hours your pay is higher and with a stronger currency that goes a longer way when you're on vacation overseas.
ReplyDeleteAlthough you pay much higher taxes you have better peace of mind as healthcare is free courtesy of NHS and a welfare system when you are suddenly laid off. Same can't be said about Singapore where many are afraid of taking paid leave in case they get sacked while they are not around. And also it's so expensive to fall ill that it is often cheaper to die.
So although you might find better food, due to the high population density, you will be spending lots of time queueing for that food. For the really popular stalls they are usually sold out by lunchtime.
It's all a matter of preference actually. If you prefer a hot and humid climate all year round with lots of people then Singapore is you place. If you prefer a slower pace of life and better quality of life overall then get out of Singapore since you won't find it there.