Saturday, 16 March 2019

Is there a government out there better than the PAP?

Hi there, I would like to take one of my readers up on something he said in a comment a while to me ago and I feel that perhaps it was one of those big, profound questions that I couldn't quite do justice to in a standard answer. Hence, better late than never, here's a full post to address that issue. Now in that comment, I was challenged on my anti-PAP stance - the PAP may not be perfect, but could I name another country where the government was doing a much better job? I suppose that was a dig at me for being British, given the mess we're currently in over Brexit and clearly, our government is the laughing stock of the world and making the headlines for all the wrong reasons given how there's so much political infighting over Brexit. I do love it when my readers ask thought provoking and challenging questions, it does tell me what my readers would like me to talk about on my blog. So in today's post, allow me to talk about how well the PAP is doing and compare the Singaporean system to what I have observed after having lived and worked in a number of countries.
How would you evaluate the PAP's performance?

Different governments are good at doing different things. 

Now I don't think you can actually rank governments in terms of their performance, not easily anyway because different people will have different criteria they would want to use for such a ranking and so for example, some people may insist that transparency and anti-corruption should be an important factor but others may care far less about that and be far more concerned about issues like women's rights and lifting the poorest out of poverty. Let's take Italy for example - a country that I had recently visited. They have an amazing public transport system: the trains and buses are modern, efficient and run on time but the best part of it all, it is incredibly cheap. A 60 km journey from Pistoia to Pisa Central cost me just 7 euros whereas an equivalent 60 km journey in the UK would cost me 26.86 euros. Their brilliant public transport system puts most countries in the world to shame! But nonetheless, the Italian government is notoriously corrupt and they are usually going from scandal to scandal, it is one of the most corrupt countries in the Eurozone. Former president Silvio Berlusconi faced so many dodgy corruption allegations and was constantly in court - cases against him ranged from bribery, tax fraud to sex with an under aged minor. Yeah and this man still served 9 years as president over 3 periods. Is he guilty of all of these charges? Probably not, but would trust him to be honest in his political dealings? Hell no. He is as slippery as an eel and so creepy, yet enough Italians clearly liked him and supported him.

If you have a job that involves a lot of traveling or commuting, say you are an Italian salesman who has meetings all over the country, then you probably would be very satisfied with the government because the wonderful Italian public transport system is the envy of the world and it makes your life a lot easier when you know you can get to a meeting in another city quickly and cheaply. But imagine you're a young graduate in Italy today trying to find a job, holy shit they currently have a youth unemployment rate of 35.1% and that's already down from a high of 42.7% in 2014. Italy actually has an excellent education system, but they are churning out all these well-educated young people into an economy where there are just not enough jobs for all of these highly educated Italian youths looking for a work. If your parents had money, they could fund you to go look for work elsewhere in the EU, outside Italy. If you're an unemployed Italian youth today, you would have plenty of reasons to be pissed off at the Italian government. In comparison, the UK has a youth unemployment rate of just 11.3% (lower than the EU average of 15.2%) and may I remind you that we're supposed to be the ridiculous country in a disastrous mess over Brexit, but somehow the economy here is in a better shape at least when it comes to providing employment for youth people! At least if we have Brexit as an excuse for anything that goes wrong now, what's the Italian government's excuse for their astonishingly high youth unemployment rate? That's just a simple example of how the Italian government excels in certain aspects of running the country but has fared rather badly in other aspects.
The current situation is good but not great? 

Let's give the Singaporean government credit where credit is due. There is a rather old piece I wrote way back in 2011 about the top five things I love most about Singapore - there were two things on that list which you could give the government credit for: public transport and the environment. I'm on the fence when it comes to public transport in 2019 - don't get me wrong, I think it is still a very good system when compared to other cities around the world in terms of efficiency and cost to the user. Is it perfect? No it isn't, there are too many instances of the MRT breaking down and even when it does work, have you ever tried changing trains at Bishan or Dhoby Ghaut during rush hour? The fact is the foundations of the MRT system were laid down in 1987 when the population of Singapore was just 2.75 million - today it stands at 5.75 million. The population has more than doubled and the infrastructure just cannot keep up with the population growth - the demand has more than doubled in that time but has the capacity of the MRT doubled? No, it just means longer waits, more crowded trains and much more unpleasant journeys. What if the population keeps growing by another 50% - would SMRT be able to increase capacity on their trains by a further 50% to keep pace with demand? I doubt it, this is something they've failed at so far and the future looks uncertain at best, bleak if I may be honest when it comes to public transport in Singapore. So yeah, whilst the public transport system in Singapore is okay for now, what will the future hold? Is it simply going to crumble under an ever increasing demand as the population keeps on growing?
There's a great Italian song by the rapper Shade called 'Bene ma no benissimo' and that translates to "good but not great"; there are many things like public transport which I would put into that category. I'm not saying that it is bad - there are certainly many problems that government would need to solve in the long run when it comes to public transport but for what it is worth, it is okay for now. But here's the thing - Singapore isn't the only country in the world with a good public transport system, I can easily name you a number of cities which have brilliant public transport systems which are pretty reasonably priced as well: Taipei, Hong Kong, Barcelona, Rome, Paris, Berlin, Amsterdam and that's just a few to begin with. Perhaps we shouldn't be that surprised and pleased when governments do get things like public transport right - it really depends on what your expectations are. Should I say, "holy shit, the train is actually arriving on time, this is totally amazing!" Or should I expect trains running on schedule to be the norm - as in the case in countries like Spain and Japan? One thing that I can give the Singapore government credit for excelling in is the environment - too many people feature on tourist attractions like Gardens By The Bay or the Botanic Gardens, but I'm talking about the more low-key things that Singaporeans take for granted with some small street in Hougang or Tampines. Practically every single street in Singapore are lined with trees and shrubs which are beautifully maintained - sure other countries do make an effort to make the environment more green but no country in the world does it as efficiently or as well as Singapore. Credit to NParks for the truly amazing job they are doing and that is something you can give the government for: truly benissimo.

Great for some but not good for others? 

Then there are areas where the Singaporean government has served some people well whilst letting down others - take education for example. For many years, the education system in Singapore has been touted as one of the best in the world in terms of producing great results but let's look at the problem with it. If we were to focus on say the top 20% of each cohort, of course it looks fantastic - these are students with straight As and can probably get into the university course of their choice. In general, the results are good if you were to look at the mean, median and mode results. But what about those in the bottom 50% or even the bottom 20%? How are they treated in the Singaporean system if they're never ever going to become the straight A student who will go on to university? What kind of options are there for these people? The parents of these students are sent into panic mode - so the poor kids are subject to endless hours of tuition to try to bump that C grade to an A grade and when all else fails, they send the kid to a private university to get a degree not worth the paper it is printed on just to be able to claim that their child is a graduate like everyone else. A combination of society' attitude towards those who are not academically inclined along with a lack of initiatives by the ministry of education has created a situation whereby the bottom 50% of each cohort are poorly served by the education system and they're made to feel that they don't deserve attention, resources or additional help from the system because they're not worthy like their peers who did achieve those straight As. So instead of parents complaining to the authorities, "what are you doing for my child who isn't academically inclined?" Unfortunately such parents are more likely to keep quiet and hang their heads in shame, because they feel they have failed in their duty as parents and they often blame themselves.
A good case study is Germany: vocational training is extremely well structured - the German government has organized plenty of apprenticeships for those who undertake vocational training and this is supported by the government, private sector employers and even trade unions. Because the training structure is so well run and does lead to respectable jobs, there simply isn't a stigma associated with those who opt for this route instead of the academic route. The German system works so well that they have the lowest youth unemployment rate in all of the EU and has one of the most robust economies in the EU. Their success is down to the fact that they do not neglect the bottom 50% of each cohort, but dedicate plenty of resources to make these people as productive as possible, to help them achieve their maximum potential through non-academic, vocational training schemes, to give them the skills to find a good job without a degree. What is the government doing for those average or below average kids in the neighbourhood secondary schools then? The problem in Singapore is the culture: if your child study hard and gets good grades, that means your child is well-behaved. But if your child performs badly in the exams, that's taken as a sign of moral failure - that the child was lazy, ill-disciplined and had been doing something idiotic like playing computer games instead of revising for his exams. They will never accept that the child is simply stupid and limited in his abilities to excel in those exams, so everyone goes into denial about the child's stupidity. Instead of dealing with the issue, a huge tuition industry has boomed up to serve these people in denial. The concept of private tuition in Germany is very rare - I'm not saying it doesn't exist, but the level of uptake is much lower than in East Asian countries: it is the exception rather than the norm.

A system with winners and losers. 

How you feel about this system would reflect and demand on how you are affected by it. Let's do a little comparison: Mrs Ang has a daughter who is a brilliant straight A student and is in one of the top schools in Singapore - her daughter has the option of applying for a number of scholarships and has benefited from having the best of everything at her school which has fantastic sports facilities and great teachers who are trying to get her into Oxford or Cambridge. Mrs Goh has a son who is the same age as Mrs Ang's daughter, but he is in a neighbourhood secondary school and his grades are mediocre at best - he's good at some subjects but struggles in others. His school is relatively modest compared to the school that Mrs Ang's daughter goes to and his teachers there are really trying their best, but with limited resources, they expect Mrs Goh to get her son extra help outside the school through the private tuition industry. How each parent feels about the Singaporean system is very much influenced by the situation their child is facing. Whilst Mrs Ang may go as far as to feel some sympathy for the frustrations that Mrs Goh would experience, she has little reason to want to change the status quo which has greatly benefited her daughter. She may even feel that her daughter deserves a lot more resources from the government than Mrs Goh's son, given that many Asian parents would assume that Mrs Ang's daughter had achieved those excellent results because she was a 'good girl' who would stay at home, revising for her exams whilst Mrs Goh's son was a 'bad boy' who was either out roaming the streets, up to no good or even if he was at home, he was surfing the internet or playing computer games instead of studying. Hence, the Ang family are better off in Singapore whilst the Goh family would be far better off in Germany because the two families are facing very different circumstances.
I can just imagine Mrs Ang saying something like, "my daughter is going to be a scholar at one of the world's top universities, she will return to Singapore to become a minister one day or maybe a CEO of a big company and will have so much to offer Singapore in the future when she becomes someone important. What kind of job would Mrs Goh's son do when he grows up? Tell me what is he capable of? He can barely sit down and memorize some basic facts for a geography test, would you trust him to handle anything of importance? I wouldn't. People like that end up working in places like Starbucks, where you will only trust them with a very basic task like making coffee - you don't need a degree for that, you just need to follow instructions on how to make a cappuccino and that isn't exactly rocket science. Would you invest as much money and resources into the education of a guy who is going to grow up to do a job like a barista at Starbucks? Or should the amount of money you invest in the student correlate with what they will contribute to society in the future? The government doesn't have a bottomless pot of money to invest in education - it needs to make the best possible decisions about where to allocate limited resources to get the maximum benefit for society as a whole and if that means investing in the brightest, most talented people like my daughter whilst overlooking stupid people like Mrs Goh's son, then tough - that may seem somewhat unsympathetic and callous but it is a completely rational decision when you consider the return in investment you will get from each individual you invest in. Is this fair? No, it isn't, but in the real world, being fair has nothing to do with being rational. The world is inherently unfair. How do you account for the fact that my daughter have a much higher IQ than Mrs Goh's stupid son? I can't answer that question - sorry, life is just not fair."

Things are changing, albeit slowly. But is it too little too late? 

Yet when you look at a country like Germany which has a very different kind of education system compared to Singapore, one notes that neither is better or worse, they are just different in the sense that they have a different approach, a different focus and deliver a different result - yet Germany is hardly poor or suffering just because they are not doing what the Singaporeans do. In fact, I am glad to see that Singapore is trying to change and evolve their education system by scrapping streaming in secondary schools, these steps would make the Singaporean education system a bit more similar to the German and Finnish model - though these are baby steps and there's a long way to go to change traditional Asian mindsets of Singaporeans when it comes to education. So even within an area like education where it is widely recognized that the Singaporean government excels at, there is still room for improvement and credit to the Singaporean government, they are willing to make the necessary changes to adapt their education to keep it relevant to the modern world. So for any topic you can possibly pick to judge the Singaporean government on, there will be winners and losers: let's take public housing for example. If you fit the mould of the young couple who is married with kids, you will find loads of schemes to help you get on the property ladder with a nice HDB flat. But if you are gay, unmarried, a single mum or divorced without children, then you're effectively shut out of the public housing system which will always give priority to families with children and you're going to get no help at all from the government to get on the property ladder. So is this an ideal situation? No. Far from it but when you are such a crowded small country, there are bound to be many problems when it comes to public housing and this will result in winners and losers with any solution.
Hence I can go through each category from defence to law and order to education to public housing to the environment to foreign policy to healthcare to the economy and find some things that the Singapore government is doing right and others areas where they are making mistakes - you could do that with any government in the world and get more or less the same outcome: they are good at some things and bad at others. On the whole, the Singaporean government isn't doing too badly at all but that doesn't mean that it doesn't have room for improvement. The biggest issue I have with the Singaporean system is the complete lack of checks and balances - this is because the PAP has such a firm grip on power that there isn't an effective opposition to challenge them should they make a mistake and this has already happened. There are well over a million China born migrants in Singapore today (otherwise known as PRCs to the Singaporean locals) and many of them have obtained either permanent residency status or have naturalized as citizens. Now it is not that Singaporeans are anti-immigrant, but the two biggest complaints about PRCs in Singapore are as follows: there is very little or no quality control and there are too many unskilled, lowly educated migrant workers from China in Singapore today. And secondly, there are just too many of them (along with migrants from other countries like India, Vietnam, Myanmar, the Philippines etc) putting huge pressures on public housing, healthcare, transport and education. Did Singaporeans who objected to this huge influx of PRCs have any real say in the matter? No, clearly not.

Do you have any power to stop a bad decision?

So let me put this hypothetical situation to you: say in ten years, Singapore's population has grown to something like ten million and there's just not enough space for the population to keep growing. So in order to prioritize space and resources, the government sets up a social scoring system where you're graded on how educated you are, how much money you've earned, how much you have contributed to society (for example, have you done something like Joseph Schooling in bringing glory to the nation on an international stage). The government then strikes a deal with Australia to rehouse the least productive Singaporeans - mostly older people with low incomes - on Christmas Island - those who have been selected to be rehoused on Christmas Island cannot appeal the decision and have the choice to voluntarily comply or be arrested and deported into exile. This is when Mrs Goh's son is served a notice - he has performed badly in his studies, has failed to get any respectable qualifications and most importantly, he is unemployed; so the government decides that he should go move to Christmas Island to take care of the elderly folks who have been sent there. Thousands of others like Mrs Goh's son are also selected and again, they have no choice but to comply with the order or face arrest. Now this may sound like a scene from some kind of dystopian, futuristic novel or a scene out of a movie like the Hunger Games but let's run with this for a moment and let me prove a point: if you do have a functioning democracy, then there will be checks and balances in place for the opposition to stop the ruling party from doing anything they want - so if enough people disagree with the current government, they can simply vote the government out at the next election.
The alternative is that you end up in a system like China, whereby there is no democracy and no elections and the citizens have no say over the laws in the country. China has a super long list of human rights violations - just look at what they are doing to the Uighur minority in Xinjiang province for example, the locals have absolutely no power to stop the way the Chinese government are subjecting the Uighur Muslims extremely high levels of restrictions on their daily lives and over a million Uighur people have been interned in re-education camps. So what I am describing above isn't such a dystopian nightmare after all - it is simply what millions of people in China have to endure everyday. Thus this is my main problem with the Singaporean system at the moment - there is no credible opposition who is any position to challenge the PAP. Now you may ask whom we can blame for this situation: you could point the finger at the opposition for not getting their act together - instead of working together to present a united front against the PAP, we have as many as nine parties jostling for power and often all they end up doing is simply splitting the opposition votes, paving a clear path for the PAP to gain an easy victory at each election. Or you could blame the PAP having crushed any credible opposition with an iron fist in the past, thus effectively discouraging anyone with anything to lose from being quite rightfully afraid of joining politics. That's why we have jokers like Tan Hui Hui and Roy Ngerng in politics in Singapore instead of anyone whom we can take seriously. I did speak to a highly educated lawyer who works behind the scenes supporting one of the opposition parties but he wouldn't personally run for office for a simple reason: he has too much to lose. He has a brilliant law career and he is in a relationship - he doesn't want to risk losing it all just because the PAP decides to cook up a case against him to disqualify him from running against one of their candidates (and yes I can understand his decision).
But there's a simple reason why things won't change. 

The fact is if you're not happy with the way Singapore is, you have two choices: the first is to stay and try to make the best of the situation in Singapore, the second is to move on, vote with your feet and seek greener pastures elsewhere. The problem though is that the more people opt for the second option, the less people there are left to stay and try to change things. This is not like North Korea where it is extremely difficult to even leave the country - heck, even in a country like China, you're free to go live and work elsewhere if that's what you want to do. Allow me to state the obvious: it is far easier to get yourself to another country where you think you will be happier than to try to take on the Singaporean government to try to change it. That is why when people look at the two choices, they always pick the lowest hanging fruit and just leave. The people who are most unhappy with the way things are have long left for a simple reason - you can't lead a popular revolt without having popular support, the way Aung Sung Suu Kyi had a lot of support in Burma even when she spent years under house arrest. If you're trying to lead a revolution without an army behind you, well, you just look like a lunatic who has bitten off more than you can chew. Yes I'm talking about people like Tan Hui Hui and Roy Ngerng. So "changing Singapore" isn't a realistic option - it's like kids who have bad parents, you can neither choose nor change your parents, you can only learn to adapt to the situation and make the best of a difficult situation.
This leads to a lot of Singaporeans choosing to appreciate the things that the Singaporean government does excel in whilst choosing not to focus on (or totally ignoring) the areas which Singapore is performing rather poorly in. This is a perfectly human trait which led to my reader challenging me to find another government in the world that is doing a better job than the Singaporean government - it sounds like my Singaporean reader is in Singapore not so much by choice but by accident: ie. s/he was born in Singapore to Singaporean parents so by default, s/he is Singaporean by nationality and s/he didn't actually choose to be Singaporean - that's just the way things turned out. Such a question suggests to me that the reader is actually trying to convince himself/herself that things aren't that bad in Singapore and most importantly, there isn't a better alternative to Singapore out there. Given that this reader probably has parents and other family members that tie him/her to Singapore, moving away from Singapore is probably quite a difficult option to even contemplate seriously. Mind you, given how right wing some of the governments in the West have become (the US, UK and Australia to begin with), moving to the West has become a lot harder in 2019 compared to say 20 years ago when the world was a very different place. So even the Singaporeans today who do want to seek greener pastures abroad may find it actually rather hard to make it happen simply because the bar has been raised so much. For some of them, making the best of what they do have in Singapore is really the only option they have left since they have no alternative.

Making the best of a bad situation

This does remind me of a situation which I found myself in during my NS days - there was this guy, let's call him "Koh" (not his real name or his surname, obviously). Koh and I worked in the same unit, we had to spend a large number of hours throughout the working week in close proximity to each other and we depended on each other a lot to get work done. I didn't like Koh, we had nothing in common but more to the point, he made virtually no effort to try to get along with me or establish any kind of rapport with me at all. I could sense that he was just miserable about having to serve NS and was trying to make everyone as miserable as him. I rejoiced each time Koh did anything right and I took it upon myself to befriend Koh, I was nice to him and I knew that I would be rewarded with a better working relationship with him - that was my motive, I wanted my working life to be easier with him. I didn't offer that kindness because he deserved it or if he had earned it, I offered it in spite of the fact that he was a pretty nasty person. My persistence paid off - I wouldn't say that Koh and I became friends, no. But we had a functioning working relationship and he didn't give me any trouble the way he was giving others a hard time. I remember on my ORD day, I shook Koh's hand and said to him, "I am glad I had the opportunity to work with you, I learnt a lot from working together." He laughed and said, "When did I teach you anything?" I didn't respond to that - but circumstances had compelled me to figure out how to make the best of a miserable, awful situation, that was the valuable lesson. I did so by focusing on the few times that Koh did do things right, that reminded me of the saying, "even a stopped clock is right twice a day" and unfortunately at times, it did feel like I congratulating a stopped clock for being right twice a day when I struggle to find something, anything that Koh did right.
How do you cope with a bad situation?

Likewise I see a huge difference in the way my sister and I deal with our parents. I have basically decided I couldn't deal with them as they are the most unreasonable people I know, they have absolutely zero social skills, their autism is off the scale and I can't get along with them at all - there was nothing to be gained by keeping in touch with them. So I moved to the UK and now I don't have any kind of relationship with them, but as my sister in Singapore has a son and my parents love participating in his life as grandparents, she has little choice but to deal with them on a daily basis much the same way I had no choice but to deal with Koh when I was serving NS. How does she manage without allowing them to drive her crazy? Well, she does pretty much what I did with Koh - she focuses on the positive things that my parents do get right and chooses to ignore or forgive the stupid shit they get wrong. It isn't rocket science: people do that all the time when they have no choice but to make the best of a terrible situation that they just can't walk away from. By that token, my reader who challenged me to find a government that is doing a better job than the PAP may not be a huge fan of the PAP, but s/he is merely trying to convince himself/herself that the PAP isn't too bad after all and the same way I simply had to find a way to get along with Koh in spite of the fact that he was one of the most difficult people I have ever met. Besides, my reader didn't actually sing praises of the PAP, rather the sentiment was, "they're not perfect, but none of the other governments out there are perfect, so how are you any better off than me in Singapore now that you're in a different country with a different kind of system? It's different but no better than Singapore - so what's the point of that?"

Picking and choosing the one system that is right for you. 

At the end of the day, we're all different people and we have very different needs. You can't have a one size fits all approach when it comes to judging how well a government will serve you. Mrs Ang and Mrs Goh may both be parents in Singapore but the Ang family is clearly a lot better suited to the Singaporean system than the Goh family, who would be far better off in a country like Germany. I am an openly gay man and I sure as hell do not want to live in a country like Singapore which discriminates against people on the basis of their sexuality - no, I'm far better off in a country like the UK where there are laws enshrined in our institution to outlaw any kind of discrimination on the basis of one's sexuality. If you're a heterosexual woman in Singapore like Mrs Ang and Mrs Goh, then the Singaporean government's stance on the LGBT community doesn't really affect you at all so it wouldn't be a factor in deciding whether or not Singapore was the right place for you to live. No, in their case, they are far more affected by how the government structures education as this has a direct impact on the kind of future their children will have within the Singapore system. Likewise, Mrs Ang only has a daughter, so she really doesn't care what goes on in the SAF whilst Mrs Goh would be far more concerned as her son would be obliged to serve national service - thus that's one factor that doesn't affect Mrs Ang at all but is extremely important to a Singaporean mother like Mrs Goh. By that token, Singapore will be heaven for some, but hell for others.
I shall end on that note and turn this over to you my dear readers: if there isn't a single government out there that is good, then what do you do when confronted with this imperfect situation where there are no simple answers? Do you stay where you are and make the best of a bad situation or do you swap your current system for another system, knowing that you may encounter different problems when you are in the other country? Please let me know your thoughts on this matter, especially if you are a Singaporean in Singapore, are you happy with the PAP or are you merely making the best of a bad situation? Do you want to move to another country? Leave a comment below please, many thanks for reading.

53 comments:

  1. We have to play the hand we are dealt with the best we can. You have to make the decision that is best for you.

    In the case of Singapore, there are sacred cows that cannot be slayed due to dominance of PAP (e.g. welfare system, NS and change in ruling party.) If you're happy with the status quo of these sacred cows or your alternatives outside of Singapore are worse, stay.

    That said, a change in political party is not impossible. I always thought the Malaysian government would be the same till my dying breath.

    It is always good to put things in perspective, there are things to be grateful for. If you're Singaporean, one can look over the causeway for an example of a worse government. As a Malaysian, I am glad of our relative safety and standard of living compared to other ASEAN members (except Singapore and Brunei).

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    1. Hi Zelda, thanks for your comment. Terima kasih.

      Would you ever consider leaving Malaysia for greener pastures then? What are the factors that are holding you back? What would tip you over the edge and make that move?

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    2. Funnily enough, I am writing this from Perth.

      Made the jump 4 years ago after seeing how bad gerrymandering was in Malaysia. I felt my vote was useless and I could always come back if things went south down under.

      My hypothesis was we were coasting off our oil wealth and we would have a reckoning when the oil runs out. We would have austerity like UK or Greece. Figured we had 5 to 10 years.

      With hindsight, I should have made the decision without being affected emotionally by the political situation or my doomsday scenario.

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    3. Hi Zelda, that's interesting! I hope things are great for you in Oz.

      But yes, the corruption in Malaysia under Najib was out of this world. I would lose faith in the system too. But here's the thing about your rather grim outlook regarding austerity: it doesn't affect everyone equally. If you have skills and you're able to get a good job to earn money - guess what? Your ability to have a good life depends far more on those skills than what is going on in the economy. There is a far greater correlation between the quality of your life and the quality of your CV than the performance of the economy. I'm writing to you from London, where we're in this Brexit mess, the pound has taken a huge beating and we have a weak economy but somehow, I'm still doing great mostly because of my skills (rather than the economy). And conversely, you can go to a rich country where things are booming and still find unskilled, uneducated people struggling to make ends meet because they're just shit at making money and they will always be poor no matter what is happening in the economy. The billionaires and millionaires making money whilst the economy is booming will not be sharing their spoils with these losers.

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    4. Yup, my opinion of austerity formed when I was an exchange student in the UK during the height of Greek financial crisis. I thought could something like that happen in Malaysia?

      You're right. If you have in-demand skill or are just rich, the world is your oyster.

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    5. Hi Zelda, here's the thing: a lot of the people who voted for Brexit are the losers who can't get a good job because 'oh there are all of these foreigners coming here taking away our jobs, so if we leave the EU and can kick all these people like the Polish, Romanian, Bulgarian, Lithuanian, Estonian etc migrant workers, then we will all have much better paid jobs." It doesn't work like that. That's why I am always cautioning people to look at their personal circumstances before even thinking about the political situation.

      Austerity happened in the UK - did it affect me? No - because I'm not dependent on government handouts. Only poor people were affected. Sorry if that sounds callous but such is the situation.

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  2. Thank you for writing this very balanced and thought-out post! It's true that the Singapore government does get many day-to-day affairs right, like the environment and public housing, for which due credit is often neglected.

    You are very astute, though, in pointing out the PAP's fundamentally one-party domination of Singapore politics, which may yet cause fatal consequences down the road. Have you been keeping up with the historian Thum Ping Tjin and his New Naratif series? He makes very good points about what the Singapore government has done so far and the costs associated. His treatment so far by the establishment also validates your point above.

    As a young Singaporean, I am truly concerned about the turn our country is taking now.

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    1. Thanks for your comment. In light of what you have said, may I ask what you would prefer to do?

      a) Try to change things, to make Singapore a better place?
      b) Leave and seek greener pastures?

      I would be interested to hear your answer and understand what your motivations are.

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  3. Most of the boomers and older people support PAP so i won't be sad that they are sent off to Christmas island. Besides have you seen how entitled and unreasonable some of them can be? Playing their Hokkien music loudly on public transport, cutting lines, hitting people to demand they give up their seats, etc.

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    1. Hiya! Yup, I have no love for these old people and their fucking ridiculous sense of entitlement. Banish them all to Christmas Island!

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    2. In fact I'm sure the PAP know that they can screw up and the older people still will vote for them. This is why recent vote "sweeteners" have all been targeted towards them. From this medishield life scheme which forces younger family members and healthy people (mostly younger of course) to cover the old and ill who had pre-existing conditions and couldn't be insured. And also there was the recent budget which released goodies for the Merdeka generation. Again I bet the younger tax payers would be covering it.
      I work in a hospital and I can observe that it is mainly the older people (apart from young children coming in for broken bones) who consume healthcare due to their whole range of chronic conditions or broken hips and shoulders from falls. Our government knows that they cost alot and don't want to cover costs for them so decide to push the responsibility to younger people who are getting lesser everyday.
      Any fiscal conservative would want them banished to somewhere cheaper aka JB or Christmas Island. Or even turned to something useful aka soylet green.

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    3. I do think the 'banished to Christmas Island' (or more likely, Batam/Bintan) scenario might come sooner than you think ... maybe in 20 years if the population keeps increasing.

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    4. Singapore is almost as claustrophobic as HK so I intend to gtfo within 10 years. I probably won't see the day when the population hits the 10M mark.

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  4. That is a rhetorical question. The problem isn't just with the PAP. It is the PAPpets who think the PAP is the best government on the globe.There are parts of many governments that should be adapted in each nation. The PAPpets, when defending the PAP, only point out the bad things happening in other countries to feel good about themselves.

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    1. Hi Di, this would be true in most cases - but in this case, I don't think my reader was defending the PAP. His point was, "they're all as bad and imperfect as each other, your fate in life would probably depend far more on things like how educated you are, how hard you work and other choices you make, the things you achieve etc. So by that token, why not base yourself in Singapore rather than leave - given that a different government isn't going to make that much of a difference?"

      It is a valid argument. Except of course, there are other factors. My sister has just arrived in London this afternoon and already she has given me so many stories of my parents' fucking ridiculous behaviour and the ridiculous allegations my mother has made against everyone in her life - like right, as if everyone is out to make life hard for my mother, nobody gives a fuck about her, let alone would spend time, energy and effort conspiring against her. She is so fucking paranoid. I just rolled my eyes in utter disbelief and was thankful I live 8 time zones away from my parents given how utterly fucking unreasonable and badly behaved they are.

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    2. I was actually referring to the staunch PAP supporters who defend the PAP no matter what by pointing out all the horrible things happening around the world; thereby, justifying the wonders of PAP.
      As for your parents --- grin and bear, my dear. You live far away.

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    3. Oh Di, don't get me started on some of the stories my mother comes up with to justify her contribution. I will start with one that made me laugh out aloud. She accused the maid of trying to show her bum to my nephew by turning her back to my nephew and bending over when she is doing the cleaning - and I'm like, what does my mother want my maid to put on a Burka to do the cleaning to avert the gaze of my nephew? She then gets jealous when the maid is in the house with my dad and she doesn't trust the maid and thinks that the maid is trying to seduce my dad by bending over when she is cleaning. And I'm like, seriously, is the maid twerking whilst she is cleaning or is my mum is jealous and paranoid about any woman near my dad or nephew? But my mum is too old to do the cleaning, so we need the maid to do the cleaning and you can't do that without bending over! She has an obsession with the maid's bum, it's uncanny I swear.

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    4. LIFT your story is hilarious. You should do a post about all the stupid shit your mother says.

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    5. I couldn't help but think of this music video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LDZX4ooRsWs Yeah that'll be the maid mopping the kitchen floor.

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    6. Oh choaniki - it would be too cruel. It would feel like a personal attack, like she is stupid, I get it. It would go to far to try to milk her stupidity for comedic value.

      But.

      I'll leave you with one of my favourite stories. When she visited the UK in winter, she said that she had to pack enough clothes for the entire trip because, "cannot wash clothes, so cold, the clothes will not dry." And I'm like, "Mum, I live here, so you think I don't do laundry from October to March when the weather is very cold? You think I go half a year without using my washing machine?" She just went, "oh." With that look on her face like, yeah how does he do it?

      That's the problem with her - the logical thing would be to ask me how I do laundry in the coldest winter days when it is below zero degrees, like how I dry my clothes etc. No, instead because she couldn't figure it out, she thinks it is impossible and she thinks that by asking me a question, she is exposing her ignorance and will lose face - and I'm like, by not asking questions, you come across as even more stupid and you will lose even more face.

      Duh. And that's just over a dumb issue like laundry. Try dealing with someone who would rather rely on her own (very limited) intelligence than ask questions.

      I don't pretend to be a genius or an expert on everything under the sun - but I am always ready to ask questions to fill in gaps in my knowledge so I can cope with the challenges in life!

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    7. I think your mom is a good case study for the Dunning–Kruger effect. As in she is unable to recognise how stupid she really is.

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    8. Oh I had a long discussion with my sister about it last night. It's easy for me to talk about it from 8 time zones but it is my sister who has to deal with my mother's ridiculous crap on a daily basis.

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    9. Tell your mom perhaps it was her husband and grandson who were leering at the maid. An old man and horn teenager looking at a maid's bum isn't too far-fetched. I'm sure the thought will push your mother over the edge.

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    10. Oh in my mother's eyes, her grandson can do no wrong and even if he was leering at the maid's ass, then that's the maid's fault for having a backside. Like how dare she be anatomically complete. Duh. As for my father, LOL! At his age, he can barely walk up the stairs, never mind get a hard on. What would he do with the maid's ass I wonder?

      There's a toxic mix of racism (the maid's Indonesian) and jealousy (obviously the maid is young and pretty). My sister once let my mother pick the maid and she deliberately picked the fattest, ugliest maid from the agency because my mother is paranoid of the maids seducing her husband and nephew. Ridiculous but true.

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    11. Holy crap.

      Had lunch with my sister today and she told me even more stories about my mother's crazy behaviour.

      Sigh.

      All I can say is that I am glad I live 8 time zones away.

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    12. Let me get something off my chest.

      My sister told me about an incident once when my mother was very angry at this other kid who gave my sister a hard time, but she was unable to beat up that kid so instead she beat me up instead for trying to stand up for my sister. I must've been like 6 years old but even at that age, I would never just sit there and let someone bully my sister. That's the kind of retard my mother is - her only emotional response is to beat up defenceless young children because she is frustrated at the situation.

      Has she changed? No. Recently my mother accused the maid of not finishing the cleaning but the maid did - look, my mother just wants an excuse to scold the maid. So the maid said, "grandpa was sitting there and he saw me do all the cleaning, you ask grandpa." My mother then asked me father to back her, when my father refused to get involved, she got so angry at him for refusing to support her (she's fucking insane) so the rest of the family feared for the maid's physical safety and moved the maid away from my mother.

      You know what my crazy mother did? She ran into the kitchen and started smashing plates, when they went into the kitchen to calm her down, she ran into the toilet and started throwing everything she could lay her hands on. She left a huge trail of devastation and she blamed it all on the maid.

      I know exactly what is going on here.

      My mother fucking hates my father - oh yeah, he's a fucking lousy husband if you ask me. She hates his guts. Yet she cannot contemplate divorce at her age, so she looks for scapegoats (like the maid) to blame for her unhappiness.

      And I'm like, "I wish mum would just divorce pa and get it over and done with. Make everyone happy." And my sister was like, "I just can't foresee that happening, not in our culture."

      Oh yes, but definitely my mum hates my dad so much. Probably more than she hates me. A lot more.

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    13. I'm so sorry for your family. Your mother seems mentality unstable. Depression? Bi-polar? Or something else? It is obvious she is not getting enough love from your father.

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    14. My mother has a lot of mental health issues and always has had them for many years - yet because of this whole Asian thing about losing face, she refuses to seek help. Her way of coping is to bottle up her feelings and pretend that everything is okay, which is hardly a sensible way of dealing with the problem. That's why if you ignore her mental health issues, they will find a way to bubble up to the surface; that's why she's normal most of the time, then something triggers her and she screams like a mad woman and smashes plates in the kitchen because she fucking hates so many facets of her life. Where do I begin? A totally dysfunctional marriage where she gets no love or attention from her husband - my father never talks to her, he watches hours of TV till he falls asleep on the sofa, rather than even turn to his wife and say, "how are you today my love?" How's that for a happy marriage? And she has a gay son who doesn't want anything to do with her - ironic that usually it is the mother who rejects the gay son, not the other way around.

      My father is of that generation where he thinks, "look wife, what more do you want? You have plenty of clothes to wear, you have nice shoes, you have a roof over your head, you have money in the bank, you never go hungry, we even have a maid so you don't have to do housework - what more could you need?" Look, if there was only one piece of bread left I know my father would give it to my mother so she wouldn't go hungry and he would be the one who goes hungry. But I am sure you are familiar with Maslow's hierarchy of needs. My father can only think about the most basic needs: food, water, sleep, comfort. But even people like my mother have more complex needs like the need to feel valued, loved, cherished and it's not like my father doesn't provide my mother with enough food - he doesn't give her any love at all. Zero. Completely zero. She can't talk to him about her feelings as he doesn't know how to respond - I'm not sure if she is articulate enough to explain how she feels. So their conversations revolve around mundane things like the price of soap or what this neighbour is doing etc. However, when she is angry with him for being a shitty husband, she doesn't know how to confront him to talk about their relationship - instead, she screams about something like, "why did you leave the cake on the table? Don't you know it will attract ants?" She will then get extremely angry about something relatively minor and scream her head off as if she is about to die over something like cakes and ants - but you know it is not really about the cake nor the ants, it is about the fact that she is so frustrated with having a total loser of a husband who has let her down in so many ways; but at the same time, she cannot bring herself to articulate what she feels, hence the crazy tantrums about relatively minor things in the house. That makes her very volatile, unpredictable and unstable - quite a scary combination and I have no idea how the heck my sister copes with that. If we weren't related, I'll never have anything to do with someone like that.

      But she is my mother.

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  5. Hi. Just to mention how the government deals with the less academically inclined, you should look the the new buildings for the Institute of technical education. Really expensive. Trouble is society still looks down on those who work with their hands

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    1. Hmmmm. Ttan, it would take more than expensive buildings in the ITE to change society's perception of those who have vocational training rather than a degree. In Germany, the government goes out of their way to provide those with vocational training the help they need to get apprenticeship, vital work experience in order lead to well paid work. So someone who chooses to be a welder, plumber or electrician in Germany will have that respect because they can often earn a lot of money and have a very successful career. But this doesn't just happen because they have nice school buildings - it is that transition from student to trainee to professional that the German authorities do very well. But in Singapore, in contrast, there just isn't enough help given to the students to make that transition successfully, so they end up viewing it has a bad route to take. Expensive new ITE buildings are just a small step in the right direction - there's a LOT more to be done if you were to compare it to the German model.

      Oh and Singaporeans are totally wrong and barking up the wrong tree by looking down on those who work with their hands because you end up with these bueh tak chek idiots who end up getting a degree from SIM or some other shitty private university, they think, "I'm a graduate" but I respond by saying, "you should have gone to ITE instead, a degree from SIM is totally worthless. You're not fooling anyone."

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  6. If I have the chance, then definitely b), to seek better opportunities abroad. There're both push-pull reasons, such as:

    -Better job/ economic prospects overseas, particularly in comparison to a non-scholar track in public sector agencies
    -Personal freedom, creativity to think and speak (sorry for using this throwaway account, for obvious reasons sadly)
    -It would take tremendous effort to change the state of affairs in Singapore. It's not just about the politicians or the sloppiness of GLC's, but rather the entire myth of a "meritocratic technocracy". Significant political decisions are disguised as mere administrative paper-pushing, from education (e.g. previously the Social Studies syllabuses for different streams were different - top students were invited to think cosmopolitan, middle students groomed for mid-management, and the rest trained to just follow orders!), to decrying fake news (all in the name of "social harmony") and, most blatantly, the Selected Presidency (legitimized by a panel of "independent experts"). This process sneakily sidesteps public discourse that ought to be happening.

    So, to try and change things would require a whole-of-Society (pun intended) approach that I'm afraid might not happen anytime soon, as mentioned in your earlier blog posts on the Mrs Ang/Mrs Goh story. Those who have benefited from the system would hardly want to rock the boat, won't they?

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    1. Hi Falcon,

      Very good points and very eloquently presented.

      But I think you've really hit the nail on the head with the last part (ie. Ang family vs Goh family) - there are winners and losers in Singapore under the current system and why would people like the Ang family want to rock the boat if they are very happy and well-served by the current system? There just aren't enough people like the Goh family around to challenge the status quo.

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  7. That say you got good results and are able to select the course you want to study despite you coming from a disadvantaged background. You did not do well in a prestigious course and what you have done good up till your A levels were practically useless, because ultimately you are judged by your grades. Given a first class honours from a pte uni or a pass degree from a prestigious course in a local uni who will have an edge in job search?

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    1. OK I am rather confused by what you have posted because at first you thought you were talking about me (coming from a disadvantaged background etc), then you seem to have asked a question in the end which doesn't apply to me at all since it is more a hypothetical question that a gatekeeper (like me) would have to consider when comparing 2 CVs. So I shall await your clarification and simply answer the final question:

      Easy: a pass degree from a prestigious university would definitely trump a first class from an first class honours from a private university. I have to be very blunt here: there are stupid people out there, oh boy there are so many stupid low-IQ people out there and we just want to make sure we don't hire someone who is plain stupid. Messing up your A levels or poly diploma so badly that you end up in the private university is a sign of stupidity - if say, I had messed up my A levels because I fell really sick during the exam period and got poor grades as a result, then I know those poor grades reflect the circumstances rather than my intellect. So I would simply resit the exams to get the grades which would truly reflect how clever I am. There's no limit to how many times you can resit the exam at A levels, however, a university would not allow you to repeat your exams if you didn't get the grades you hoped you would get. They would be like, "you're done, you didn't fail, you passed, the grades aren't great but it is what it is - perhaps you should have studied harder but we can't let you repeat your final year just because you're not happy."

      And more to the point - we're looking for people who are mature and responsible enough to handle a challenge like "study for your exams and get good grades", it isn't purely a test of one's IQ. So if you're totally unable to get your organized to get decent grades for an exam, then that suggests to me that there's something wrong with you.

      In any case, of course, neither are ideal situations - these people have messed up along the way (be it at A levels or during their university days), but which is the lesser of the two evils? I would say if you've at least made it to a decent respectable university, then people would be far more forgiving given the perception that private universities will dumb down their syllabus and exams and that all you need to do is pay the fees, spell your name correctly and they'll give you a first class degree - now that's what a degree mill does, not all private universities are the same of course. But if you're indeed smart, then why didn't you go to a proper, decent university instead of one that has a questionable reputation at best?

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    2. I am just making a hypothetical situation of someone who did well in A levels but did not perform in University. There are cases especially in competitive courses with many good students. On top of being academically inclined I would think one's family situation would also affect his ability to do well. I am not saying having to work part time but rather have to manage the disruptive family situation which may distract you from your studies? In short it is also about the family privileges you have. A lot of time in university having less distractions will mean an edge in results, everything else equal.

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    3. Well of course, having a stable, supportive family does help. I remember when my sister was very sick when she was at university, we all took turns taking good care of her because she was living at home. But when I was very sick in London in my first year at university, well my family members were in Singapore - so I had to drag myself to the hospital, get a check up for meningitis, drag my sorry ass from department to department in the hospital as they ran various tests on me and then when I got given a whole bag of medicines, I had to go home on my own with no one to take care of me. Yeah that was the down side of studying abroad, but I do have a very disruptive family situation (as you've described) with a mother who is totally crazy and irrational - the only way I put up with her is that I treat her as if she is intellectually disabled and don't begrudge her for her behaviour. She was a terrible mother and my father is completely useless as well as a husband and father.

      Look, I had awful parents, I came from a working class family, my parents are disabled - I could spend the rest of my life feeling sorry for myself or I could get over that shit and focus on making myself a better person, getting out there and achieving great things for myself. It's a simple choice: you never achieve anything by indulging in self-pity, trust me. Even if I were to cry myself a bucket of tears, what good would those tears do? Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

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  8. Secondly, what are the top skills that people are referring to that those with pedigree degrees possess. As you said it depends on your situation, as a guy in Singapore you need to do NS so you cannot just be book smart, you need to be street smart, and on top of that possess nimble thinking and limbs. The issue is why we are narrowly focusing on academic success as proxy to skills, but there is a shift in focus, from academic results to skills, I think the pap govt also realises this is not sustainable in the long run. Lastly we are also seeing changes in the official narrative that people develop at their own pace. Academic success at a younger age does not mean you are more intelligent and vice versa. Would you clarify why we typically link intelligence to ability to get good grades?

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    1. I don't think it is that straight forward in terms of linking intelligence to good grades: the fact is if a good company advertises for a well-paid, interesting job, they will get so many applicants for that one position that they can pick from so many outstanding candidates. How do you differentiate between them then? Do you simply give the job to the person with the best results? Or do you subject them to a rigorous interview process and test them to see if they are indeed a good fit for the company, if they will be able to perform well in this job? So as you can see, it is not straight forward at all at that level, but I think you're asking the wrong question. Allow me to change the wording: why do we typically link stupidity to people with poor grades then?

      I think the answer is simple: there are two reasons why people get poor results. Firstly, they're plain stupid. That's obvious. Secondly, they're lazy - ie. they may be smart, but they didn't study hence the terrible results. A smart person who works hard probably wouldn't end up with bad results. So from our POV, we really don't care if the person with the bad results is actually stupid or lazy (or both), they are equally good reasons for us to reject them and opt for someone with better grades. It's that simple really.

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    2. Is it possible to achieve excellent grades purely through hard work and little intelligence? Yes but only at PSLE and O levels when all you do is memorize your textbooks and notes for the exam - but not at university level when you are challenged so much more to demonstrate your intellect in the exams. So we're not worried about making assumptions about people who do well at university - as long as the degree is from a respectable, good university and not a shitty one.

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  9. Talking about unfairness of life and the recent university admissions cheating scandal. What are your thoughts?

    https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-47585336

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    1. Sorry dude, I have been snowed under at work this week. Plus my sister has been in town (she just went back to S'pore). So I was either fighting fires at work or doing fun stuff in London with my sister.

      I am surprised that this became such big news: I always knew that nepotism and corruption was a part of the system and has been for many, many years. I'm not surprised that it happens, I'm just surprised that people are actually being arrested and possibly facing jail time for it; like how far back do you wanna go with this as if you start arresting people who are caught doing it now - what about the people who have done it in the past? Do you go back to the 1990s? 1980s as well? Where do you draw the line?

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    2. I'm asking you to post not because I'm completely unaware of the issue. It is to bring to light how rampant it is and convince the fench-sitting millenials. It might throw salt into the wounds of hardcore PAP supporters who are brainwashed to think that hardwork and meritocracy is all it takes to be successful. And that, unlike what PAP says, you can work hard all your life and not be successful because you just don't have the right connections.

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    3. I actually disagree with you - not that I am agreeing with the PAP. Look, there's a big difference between having the odds against you in life (as in my case) and having the odds in your favour in life (say imagine a rich kid with well-connected parents). Having the odds stacked against you doesn't mean you can't succeed - it just means that it is a lot harder for you to succeed than for a kid who has all the odds in his favour.

      If someone has worked hard all their life and still not succeeded, there's something else going on here: I refer you to this post I wrote last year on this topic. http://limpehft.blogspot.com/2018/08/why-do-some-brilliant-students-suck-at.html

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    4. By that token, I think I have done remarkably well in the world of finance in London for a working class kid from Ang Mo Kio who has disabled parents and had a difficult childhood. I don't have the right connections but fortunately, I managed to compensate with a lot of social skills to get what I want in life and adapt to new challenges. That's not even simple intelligence, the kind which reflects on your score on an IQ test - it's more than that. My parents gave me nothing, absolutely nothing in terms of "the right connections" - here's an example: my father puts our family GP Dr Quek on a pedestal as Dr Quek is the most intelligent, most well-educated person he knows. I roll my eyes and think, he's a GP in Ang Mo Kio for crying out aloud - I have peers who have gone on to become brain surgeons and that trumps GPs any day of the week. My father's friends are all a bunch of losers who have achieved so little in their pathetic lives - that should give you an idea of how little help I got from my parents! But did I fail in life as a result of that awful start? No, I was bloody determined to get to where I want to be on my own and I'd like to think that with enough social skills, intelligence and determination in the right combination, anyone can succeed regardless of how fucking awful their parents are.

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    5. I agree with you Choaniki, connections are what get you into the door more than your academic results. If your father is CEO of some company he can get you a position as a manager in his company even if you do not have a degree. However Lift is right too, that though odds are stacked against you, you can still succeed with a lot of hard work and also luck.

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    6. Well LR Singapore, let's look at three statements.

      1. Life is a lot easier if you have parents with good connections, you can get a good job through nepotism even if you have messed up your studies.

      2. Life is a lot harder if you don't have parents with good connections.

      Both of the above are true, but what about statement 3 below:

      3. You are doomed to failure if you are born into a poor, working class family and have parents who are unable to help you.

      Statement 3 is false: you can be born into a poor, working class family and get zero help from your parents to get a decent job, but it doesn't mean you can't help yourself by working extra hard, developing the right skills, forging your own connections in the working work and of course, with a little bit of luck - things can turn out fine. Sure it will be harder for them, but they can get there in the end and that's what I believe in.

      The more the odds are stacked against you, the harder you have to work. And boy did I have a lot of odds stacked against me when I was young.

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    7. Is this fair, you may ask? Of course it is not. But life is so inherently unfair in so many ways. Let me give you a simple example: I have a friend with two kids. His daughter is a straight-A student who is brilliant in everything from her studies to sports to her social skills. His son fails all the subjects at school, has zero social skills and is terrible at sports. My friend is a brilliant dad, highly educated, multi-lingual, great at sports, great friend and wonderful guy. How the heck his daughter and son turned out so different, I would never know. Not unless his wife had an affair and he isn't the father of that boy - only something that extreme would explain why his son turned out like that.

      But otherwise, I'm pretty used to the fact that life is totally unfair and you get what you're given: we just have to make the most of the hand we are dealt.

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    8. The way PAP frame it that since SG is a meritocracy, people who succeed are all due to their own hard work. Those who don't are lazy and deserve no help or sympathy (nevermind governmental policies allowing cheap PMETs to compete with local labour).
      This is the part I hate and won't bother debating with hardcore PAP supporters with. They won't understand that having a normal family is already very lucky and a huge leg up in life.
      I came from a dysfunctional family where my parents divorced before I entered primary school and I can't even remember what my biological mother looked like. My elder brother bullies me and extorts pocket money from me (he now works in a GLC, so fitting!). I basically raised myself since I had absent parents, a lousy sibling and no role models. When my dad remarried the stepmother I'll treated me because she knew I didn't like her (and I would like you more due to being treated badly?!).
      It was a miracle I didn't turn into a homeless drug addict or joined a gang!
      Yet somehow since I was not a straight As student and can't enter a top tier university I don't deserve opportunities to succeed!? And I wasted 10 yrs working in industry only for our greedy government to sign an FTA with India which allows their (dubious qualified) professionals to come in to work with no VISA requirements or quota limitations!
      Believe you me I am working extra hard to gtfo of this stupid place. I would vote a despot from Zimbabwe into parliament if I could just to let our ministers have a taste of their medicine. And if SG collapses i would feel a sense of schadenfreude towards the misery of all the PAP supporters.

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    9. Well Choaniki - let's put it this way, okay? If anyone believes everything the PAP claims (such as on your point about meritocracy), then they're truly stupid; thus would you really want to argue with such people? It's not worth it.

      But let's put it this way, just for me to be pedantic.

      Not all successful, rich people succeeded because of their own hard work - some of them got a lot of help from their parents (case in point: Donald Trump).

      But by the same token, not all successful, rich people succeeded because they got help from their parents. Some are self-made billionaires because they struggled and succeeded against the odds (case in point, Sir Alan Sugar - one of the richest men in the UK who came from a very poor family).

      Donald Trump is vastly different from Alan Sugar.

      Just making a point.

      You know how I feel about Singapore. That's why I got out yeeeeeaaaars ago. Hello from London.

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    10. From LHL, good result = good jobs. Omg wait the fresh graduate find out about outsourcing and globalisation.
      https://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/singapore/upholding-high-academic-achievements-a-crucial-factor-in-11367016

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    11. I think there is several facets to unpack here. Let me try to offer a few bullet points:

      1. Regardless, bad results will never lead to good jobs, you need to study hard and get a good education regardless of whether or not you are guaranteed a good job. We're realistic enough to realize nothing is for certain and I'm actually going to place the blame on some of these people who lack soft skills to get on in the business world, ref: http://limpehft.blogspot.com/2018/08/why-do-some-brilliant-students-suck-at.html

      I think it is stupid to put LHL on a pedestal and believe every word he says, hell no, there are so many intelligent, incredible role models out there so much better than LHL. Why are you so fixated on what LHL says? When Trump says something idiotic and stupid, I roll my eyes and say, "yeah that's Trump, what do you expect?" I do the same for LHL. Why can't you just roll your eyes and accept he is stupid and spouts stupid shit? I get it, you're upset that other Singaporeans don't have the same reaction as you - but you can't change the rest of your country.

      All you can do is leave.

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  10. LIFT, I agree you need to work extremely hard to succeed against the odds. Not only the hands that you are dealt with at birth but also well you can say the economic policies of the day. In a way, I would say pap has gone a bit far in their economic policies allowing in too many foreigners, and I do not see why they frame it as because we are short of skills while we have our straits times saying we have the top education system and tertiary education systems. I wonder this irony does not give substance to the pap argument. This kind of policies benefits the rich businessmen and not the working class. And yes I am not a fan of the pap.

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