Hi guys, I wrote a piece right at the very beginning of the year discussing ten things I was hoping to do in 2021; okay I know it has only been half a year so far but given that we're already in mid-June, I thought we could take stock and see how good or bad this year has been coming along. Obviously, the world is still in the middle of a never-ending pandemic, let's see how the first 6 months of this year has matched up to those expectations that I had at the beginning of this year.
1. Celebrate the inauguration of President Joe Biden
Verdict: Yes, but that was an easy one.
I wanted to start the year off with something that was easily achieved, so as to avoid disappointment. Would Trump's supporters have been able to attempt some kind of coup to sabotage Biden's inauguration and subsequently his government? There was a lot of talk but it was all hot air in the end, we're about 6 months into Biden's government and we've actually heard very little from Trump since he has been forced off social media. I am a bit surprised as I thought he would have fought a bit harder to make his voice heard through other means and via third parties - to be fair, he has done a bit of that but it was nothing like when he was firing off several ridiculous tweets a day. It does look like he is a broken old man and I know it is in bad taste to kick a man who is already down but it does please me to think about him sulking in Florida, still brooding over how he lost that election. Of course, America remains deeply divided and I don't expect Biden and Harris to heal the nation, given the mess they had inherited. But at least 2021 feels a lot better than 2020 with Trump out of the White House. It's not even that I like Biden that much to be honest, but it is pretty hard not to be a better president than Trump. It's nearly impossible to be a worse president than Trump - I would like to see Biden do well though, rather than simply be the guy who won by simply being the alternative to Trump. But yes, that's at least one out of ten items on this list that I have achieved pretty early in the year, though admittedly this was a very low hanging fruit compared to the other goals on this list - perhaps this was a reflection of just how pessimistic I felt back in January!
2. Go skiing this year
Verdict: Sort of. Kind of. I actually managed to do so locally in London!
In hindsight, this was hopelessly optimistic. I was hoping to either escape the Alps in the spring to go skiing but that was impossible due to the lockdown or perhaps even fly to somewhere like Chile to ski there around July, but again, that's just not possible given how the borders were effectively closed and it wasn't permitted to go abroad for a holiday until the 17th May. I did manage to ski on a few occasions in London though when it snowed heavily in January but no, it's hardly the same compared to a real ski resort. In a ski resort, you ascend the mountain with the help of ski lifts then gravity does all the hard work as you ski down the mountain. In London, I have to climb back up the slope with my skis around my shoulders - it takes me about 90 seconds to ski down the hill and ten minutes to climb back up. Still, skiing is skiing and a skiing holiday is much more than just the sport: it is to experience proper winter weather and we did have that in London this January - so I think I will give this half a tick here, as I think it would be mean to say "no no, it never happened at all."
Verdict: Yes it happened!
It's not like I actually went to Rotterdam to see the event, but I suppose this was more like a barometer to see if things were slowly returning to normal in 2021 or not. This is a major music festival that takes place every year and for the first time since Eurovision was first held in 1956, in 2020 the event was canceled due to the pandemic. Whilst I am a major fan of Eurovision, this was a chance for us to see if there was a way for us to organize major events like these whilst adhering to social distancing and all safety protocols rather than just canceling it. And credit to the organizers, it worked and the event brought so much joy to the fans of Eurovision. Though the one person we have to really feel sorry for is Dutch singer Duncan Laurence, usually the previous winner of Eurovision plays a major part in hosting the event and passing on the trophy to the next winner but he tested positive for Covid-19 just a few days before the event and had to go into self isolation. Ouch. And one of the favourites, the band from Iceland Daưi og Gagnamagniư couldn't perform live because one of the band members tested positive after arriving in Rotterdam, hence they had to watch the whole event from their hotel room in Rotterdam and they still finished 4th despite the organizers having to air a video of their rehearsal. Despite all the small problems, it was still a huge relief to so many people to have Eurovision this year as it was a sign - a signal that things were returning to normal, albeit slowly and we can hope for things to keep getting better!
Verdict: Not happened yet and highly unlikely.
I'm not sure what I was thinking when I added that to the list but this was never going to happen this year. I was counting on there being some kind of vaccine passport and I have already booked my appointment to get my second dose of vaccine on the 23rd June. I was hoping that countries would start welcoming people who are fully vaccinated to visit without the need for quarantine and to be fair, some like France and Iceland have already done that. Will Singapore follow suit? I doubt it somehow, it seems highly unlikely given that Singapore hasn't been coping well with the pandemic this year. A new outbreak coupled with a slow rate of vaccination means that it is highly unlikely that Singapore will open up to international travelers anytime soon. So no, I am not expecting this to happen this year. I am not willing to quarantine that long upon arrival in Singapore, it would just drive me crazy. Personally, I think the rules are too blunt - visitors who are fully vaccinated should be tested regularly, a few times a day if necessary (with a lateral flow test) and if they do test positive, then boom - they go into quarantine at once. But as my recent trip to Portugal demonstrated, yes it is possible to have a system where you will test the tourists regularly, without assuming that everyone has the same risk.
5. Enjoy the Tokyo Olympics.
Verdict: Yeah, it does look like it will happen!
This one is controversial - there have been a lot of protests from the Japanese locals to cancel or postpone the Tokyo Olympics given how infection rates in Japan are still rising; there are fears that a big influx of international athletes (along with their coaches and officials) will cause a major outbreak as well as introduce new variants to Japan. However, the contract to host the Olympics states that only the IOC has the power to cancel or postpone the event, if the host city unilaterally chooses to cancel or refuse to host the event, then it will be entirely responsible for the cost of cancellation. That's a bill that the Japanese government doesn't want to have to pay so it does look like the Olympics will go ahead. Of course, I want it to happen because I always enjoy watching gymnastics at the Olympics and I think the Japanese people are perhaps somewhat pessimistic - whether or not the Olympics will lead to a major outbreak will depend entirely on how strict your testing and quarantine procedures are. You can have the strictest of rules but they will only work if you enforce them without exception. They did so at the 2021 Eurovision song contest - quarantining the previous winner and the favourites from Iceland. Would they be willing to quarantine someone like Simone Biles if she tests positive upon arrival in Japan? Well, I think they will and thus there will be allegations of this not being a 'fair' Olympics if some popular and famous athletes are forced to withdraw from competition because they tested positive after arriving in Japan so if too many athletes tests positive, say if there's a major outbreak in the Olympic village - then who knows what might happen?
Verdict: I've left that job! So I am altering this one to any trip to another country.
My regular readers will know that I have recently left my old job, so visiting the Tallinn office is no longer an option for me. It's not that I'm desperate to visit Tallinn again anyway, I've been there enough times and it is a small enough place that I've seen practically everything there a few times already. So I shall alter this to being able to take a trip to another country and I have managed to go to Portugal this year for a short holiday, hence I am going to say yes I have done this.
7. More travel for work in 2021
Verdict: We don't know yet but this is not very likely I'm afraid.
My new job ought to involve some travel but a lot of it will depend on the rules permitting international travel and so I hope for the best. I will be fully vaccinated as of the 23rd June and if the company is going to pay for me to get tested in order to facilitate international travel, then that would be brilliant. I am cautiously optimistic that things will get better as we're already reaping the rewards of a successful vaccination programme already - our death rate in the UK is staying very low in the single digits despite the number of cases rising; that's because the older and vulnerable are either vaccinated/already infected and have some antibodies or dead. Over 150,000 people in the UK have already died from Covid-19 so there's this feeling that if it is going to kill you, you would be dead already as you've already had plenty of time to get infected. Somehow, we are going to learn to live with the virus and eventually get back to where we were in the past - with a combination of vaccinations, testing and safety protocols that will allow commercial activities to resume.
Verdict: Yes, that's been achieved.
I didn't get to go to do any gymnastics training this year until the lockdown was lifted on the 12th April and on that very same day, I was already back at the gym. So I have had about two months of solid training since then, my skills and fitness are nearly back to where they were before the lockdown - the challenge with gymnastics is that so much of what I do depends on muscle memory and that goes when you take a long break from actually performing the skills. I am currently training three times a week though I expect that to go down to twice a week when I start my new job. I have had to travel to a gymnastics club much further away from where I live to get more training as there are very limited classes available at my local gymnastics club, but hopefully that situation will improve later on this year. Fingers crossed, there will not be any more lockdowns and it was the hardest part of the lockdown for me - to be deprived of my favourite sport.
9. Resume my Welsh language meet ups
Verdict: Not yet but I am going to Welsh boot camp in August.
I speak Welsh! Before the pandemic, I used to go to a Welsh conversation group in London - it's quite informal, we just all show up in a cafe in King's Cross during the weekend and speak Welsh to each other. English is not banned per se, but strongly discouraged as that would defeat the whole purpose of the meet up. I enjoy those meet ups as it is one of the occasions where I am totally taken out of my comfort zone: currently, Welsh is my fifth language even though I have studied it formally. Contrast that to Spanish and Italian, which are my fourth and sixth languages respectively - I have studied neither and have simply figured them out on my own since I speak French as a second language. Foreign travel is currently possible but complicated at the moment, so a Welsh boot camp in West Wales enables me to be in a place where I am forced to speak a language other than English and it will still feel like a holiday. So I am going to give this one half a tick especially since the London meet ups might resume later this year: fingers crossed, that would be so very nice.
10. Do more acting in 2021
Verdict: Nope, not gonna happen.
Oh you can't even blame this one on the pandemic, to be honest I've not done any proper acting now for over 3 years and I've long accepted that there's just no demand for someone looking as old and bald as I am in the industry anymore. I have fond memories of when I used to be treated like a VIP in places like Germany but that's all many years ago and I'm grateful to have had the opportunity to have done all that in the past. I'm now totally prepared to focus on my new job in finance and leave the acting to one side. Actually I've done a couple of auditions this year but I'm not holding my breath for anything major to happen. I'm realistic enough about this and I am not getting my hopes up at all on this issue.
So if we count the 5 ticks and the two half ticks, 2021 has scored a 6/10 so far against my expectations at the very beginning of the year. 6/10 isn't bad considering that his pandemic is still raging on in many parts of the world including the UK where we're facing a fourth wave because of the Delta variant. This score may improve if I get to travel for work later this year and/or I get to do some acting in the second half of this year, but with both of those possibilities being rather unlikely at best, I am going to say that 2021 is going to score a 6/10 against my expectations and quite frankly, this isn't bad at all given how utterly dismal 2020 has been. That's it from me on this topic, what do you think? How has 2021 treated you so far? Has the first six months of this year exceeded your expectations or have you been disappointed? What are the things that have yet to happen this year y,et but you hope would happen before the end of the year? Would things get any worse, before they can get better this year? Please leave a comment below and many thanks for reading.
Hi Sandra, allow me to respond please:
ReplyDelete1. I don't think my opinion (or your opinion) matters actually so feel free to be as pessimistic if you want if that's the way you feel. If a lockdown is gonna happen, then it will happen whether we like it or not. We're just totally helpless and passive in a pandemic, it's not like I can say, "I refuse to comply by the lockdown rules." No, regardless of our feelings, it is what it is - so if it happens, tough shit, it will happen even if we're angry cos our feelings are irrelevant, they do not matter at all and we have zero influence over the outcome.
2. The number of cases has arisen sharply in the last week but the number of deaths have remained very low (often in the single digits) - this reflects the fact that the old and the vulnerable have either been a) vaccinated or b) are already killed off by Covid-19. So the people getting the virus now are mostly children and younger adults who are not fully vaccinated yet and those older adults who are vaccinated are unlikely to require hospitalization if they get infected with the Delta variant. Of course, we never know what may happen next - like if the virus evolves into something that renders the current vaccines ineffective, but no one can predict that.
3. You've fundamentally made a mistake by asking me to get my bucket list done by Sept/Oct. You forget that I am a) very rich and b) actually very free at the moment since I've yet to start my new job. I'm a very rich gentleman of leisure - I've got all the time & money in the world to do all the fun shit that I like. But the problem is that the rules prevent me from doing the things that I like to do: so can I visit my family in Singapore? No I'm not allowed to. Can I fly to Australia to go skiing there? No, I'm not allowed to. The moment I am allowed to do something legally, then yeah I'll do it - for example, the moment I was allowed to travel to Portugal when it emerged on the green list, I went and had a lovely time there even though the testing procedure cost so much but remember, I am so rich - money is never an issue for me. And as for my gymnastics training, the government forced all gyms to close by law during the lockdown; so short of actually buying my own gym (like buying a massive property and filling it with the best gymnastics equipment), I was not allowed to go for my gymnastics training by law. The moment I was allowed to do so, I went back to the gym - the first session possible, I was the first person at the door on Monday the 12th April. As for my Welsh language meet up groups, I can't help it if I am keen to meet up but the rest of the learners are too afraid to meet up because of Covid - these are things involving other people. I can't force them to meet up just because I wanna meet up and enjoy speaking Welsh.
And as for other things like Eurovision 2021 and the Tokyo Olympics - I have absolutely ZERO influence on whether or not they happen or not. So I am again left scratching my head like, what the hell is Sandra on about?!?! This is not even a bucket list - a bucket list is things that I can do, these are things that I would like to happen (such as the Tokyo Olympics) but I have ZERO influence over the outcome. It's not even like I'm trying to get on team GB for the Tokyo Olympics, at least I might have some influence over that if I train hard. But you don't seem to know what the definition of a bucket list even is.
Sandra, you're in the UK as well, you are abiding by the same laws that govern me and you're a regular reader, so it baffles me that you think that I've not done the items in this list for any other reason apart from "I'm not allowed to". It's not like I've been too busy or too poor to do all the fun shit that I like to do, like I said, I'm extremely rich and even when I was working, I still have tons of free time on my hands. So what you said is downright stupid actually, if I may be really blunt.
Sorry I read what I wrote earlier and it did come across as quite harsh, but it's a reflection of my intense frustration with the situation. I do abide by the rules and if the government allows me to go do the things I enjoy like traveling or even going to the gym, then you bet I'll be the first to do it once it is permitted. I was the first person at the gym on Monday the 12th April, literally I was the first person in line at the front door when they opened.
ReplyDeleteGiven that I do have both the money and time to do the things I enjoy, it has been intensely frustrating not to be able to spend the money on the stuff that I do want to do - I had a ridiculous idiot approach me on Instagram today and asked me why I haven't been traveling much this year and I wanted to scream at her, isn't it obvious that we're in the middle of a pandemic? But I paused and realized, SHE IS POOR. She has no money. That's why whether there's a pandemic or not, she can't travel because she can't afford it. So the fact that the borders are closed now doesn't affect her the way it has affected me, hence I didn't respond to her as it wasn't worth getting angry with her.
And please - allow me to clarify one thing Sandra. I don't have an opinion on whether or not we'll lock down again later this year for a simple reason: my opinion doesn't matter. I have ZERO control over the situation. So if we lock down against for 6 months, then fine, so be it. I'm not one of those people who are hoping that we won't have any more lockdowns - people with hope in a pandemic only end up getting disappointed so I am refusing to hope for anything; I'm not predicting that we will definitely lockdown either. My attitude is just que sera sera, whatever will be will be, take it one day at a time but I honestly don't need anyone to tell me to go on holiday once the opportunity presents itself given that I do have the time, money and desire to travel. The fact that I did get to Portugal and back before it was taken off the green list (a tiny window of 3 weeks) should tell you that the moment any countries are put on that green list, I'm out of here before you can even count to ten.
Sandra, let's put it this way: reminding me to do the things I enjoy is like asking a chain smoker who spokes 100 cigarettes a day to take his smoking break. You've clearly underestimated what a lazy hedonist I am - like I live to do the things I love and work is just something I do once in a while to make sure I have enough money to do all those fun things. I couldn't be more different than my sisters for example, who are typical Singaporeans who work crazy long hours. I've only been less of a hedonist during 2021 because of the restrictions imposed by the government because of Covid but the moment I am given the chance to do something fun that I enjoy again, it'll be like that chain smoker running for the nearest exit for his next cigarette break before you can even complete the sentence, "okay you may go for a smoke now." Heck, by the time you've said that sentence, he probably is already halfway through that cigarette and by the same token, by the time Portugal was on the green list, I was already on Tripadvisor choosing my hotel and exploring day trip options from Porto.
ReplyDeleteHi LIFT, it’s been awhile. My aunt just told me her daughter chose to go SIM because she was “not confident enough to handle the interview stage for public unis”. I can only shake my head as it’s too late to change their decisions.
ReplyDeleteOh good grief. Where do I even begin? Her daughter will get into SIM with ease of course as their criteria is so freaking low, anyone with a pulse and can pay the fees can get in. But think about just what would happen if she ever met someone like me when she applies for a job in the future and I questioned her decision making process? I also blame the mother in this case, the daughter is clearly making a bad decision and the mother just goes along with it - she is making no effort to try to change her daughter's mind in this case. Going to a better university doesn't guarantee anything of course, but it will certainly look better on your CV when you do get round to applying for a job. Whereas there are no good reasons, no decent answer when asked the question, "so why did you end up at SIM?" I just hope that in the long run, none of it will matter if she can marry a rich man, forget about having a career and just be a housewife as she clearly lacks basic common sense.
DeleteHey Alex didn't you mention a couple years ago you advertised a job on this blog and someone from SIM did apply and got the offer, but then the company pulled the offer because their potential boss left the company? What was their reason for choosing SIM? I'm grateful I've never been asked why I chose what uni I went to or even what courses I took, but that's only because I had projects I could list on my CV that interviewers asked about instead.
DeleteYes, to cut the long story short, I was looking for a local guy to support an Australian expat in Singapore but the Aussie guy turned out to be useless and got the sack, so by that token, that job position disappeared. But in this case, I was happy to consider the local guy who went to SIM because in spite of his degree, he did manage to work several years for a local bank - I didn't question why he went to SIM. I could if I wanted to be cruel but what's the point of that? I was nice I suppose, I chose to focus on the positives. We talked mostly about what he did at the local bank, what he had learnt there, what his experiences were and my conclusion was that he had proved himself sufficiently in the local bank - thus he was worthy of being given a chance. This candidate was unusual in that sense, because of his ample work experience, I was willing to ignore his degree and just focus on his years of (very relevant) work experience instead.
DeleteOh alright. I guess after your first job it doesn't matter where you went to. But the interviewer for their first job is certainly going to ask about the choice of SIM. The one thing I find strange about Sg is because there are so few universities there is a huge starting salary gap between NUS and SIM/SIT. In America and the UK it doesn't seem to be the case because there's more universities and more of a gradient in starting salary.
DeleteWell it depends Amanda. Yesterday I was at a meeting and introduced my friend as the guy who got a scholarship to Oxford - sometimes little details like that does have some clout in the right circles. But if you have little/no work experience and you're looking to score your first proper job after graduating, then yes the interviewer will inevitably ask some questions about your university. In the UK, I can't speak for all firms but most employers will rather peg your salary to your performance - ie. if you can deliver the goods, we'll pay you good money. This makes a lot more sense to reward good work performance than to simply say, "okay you went to a good university so we're going to pay you more to reward you for having been a good student."
DeleteThat's probably how it should be. But it just blows my mind that SIM grads start at 2k/month while NUS grads start at 3k/month. Though this is aggregate data, it isn't data for salary at the same company/position. I think in your industry it is so performance based that there has to be a lot of incentives, and an Oxford degree/scholarship doesn't matter if it doesn't generate profits.
DeleteWell I think it's stupid, just look at my latest post criticizing another dumb aspect of life in Singapore. I think that your salary should be based on your work performance rather than your university - you can't assume that all grads from good universities will adapt well to working life and you have got to give people the chance to prove themselves rather than condemn them for life just because they took one wrong turn and ended up at SIM.
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